Crafting Congratulatory Notes: A Guide To Warm Wishes For The Soon-To-Be-Wed

Writing a wedding card to a friend or family member can be challenging, but it's a great way to express your happiness and support for their marriage. Whether you're attending the wedding or not, a thoughtful, personalised message will be cherished by the newlyweds. Here are some tips to help you craft the perfect wedding congratulations message:

- Include a Congratulatory Message: Congratulations is a simple yet effective way to express your support. You can personalise it by mentioning the couple's names or adding a funny quip, such as You guys are great together!.

- Share Your Joy: Let the couple know how happy you are for them. Say something like, It's been so wonderful to watch your new life together. Congratulations and all the best for the future!.

- Add a Personal Touch: Weave in a memory, comment on their wedding attire, or share how excited you are to see their honeymoon photos. This makes your message unique and special.

- Express Your Emotion: Don't hold back! Weddings are joyous occasions, so write from the heart and let the couple know how happy and excited you are for them.

- Match the Tone: Whether your message is formal or casual depends on your relationship with the couple. A close family member might appreciate a heartfelt note, while a distant acquaintance may prefer something more lighthearted.

- Welcome Them to the Family: If a family member is getting married, welcome their spouse into the family with a warm message. You can say something like, Welcome to the family! We're so excited to have you with us..

Formal Wedding Wishes

A formal wedding card should be timeless, traditional, and romantic. Here are some examples of formal wedding wishes:

• “Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness.”
• “May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy.”
• “Best wishes on this wonderful journey as you build your new lives together.”
• “Thank you for letting me share in this joyful day. I wish you all the best as you embark on this wonderful union.”
• “Wishing you joy, love, and happiness on your wedding day as you begin your new life together.”
• “May the love and happiness you feel today shine through the years.”
• “May today mark the start of a long and prosperous journey together.”
• “Congratulations to the happy couple and your loved ones!”
• “May today be the beginning of a long, happy life together.”
• “May your marriage be filled with trust, respect, and love, but above all else, may it be filled with abundant joy.”
• “May your wedding day be everything you've dreamt of and more.”
• “May your love continue to grow with every kiss.”
• “May your love for each other be steadfast and strong. Wishing you joy and happiness on your wedding day.”
• “May your joining together bring you more joy than you can imagine.”
• “May the true love you share today grow stronger as you grow old together.”
• “Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness.”
• “May the years ahead be filled with love and joy.”
• “May your love grow stronger each and every passing year.”
• “May your marriage be strong because the two of you are strong in your faith.”
• “May God bless you and your union.”
• “May God grant you all of life's blessings and love's joys.”

Casual Wedding Wishes

When writing a casual wedding card, it's best to be yourself and write something that comes from the heart. Here are some ideas for casual wedding wishes:

• "We're/I'm so happy for you!"
• "Wishing you lots of love and happiness."
• "Wishing you a long and happy marriage."
• "Wishing you the best today and always."
• "So happy to celebrate this day with you both!"
• "Best wishes for a fun-filled future together."
• "Wishing you a wonderful life together."
• "Here's to a long and happy marriage!"
• "Wishing you all of the love and happiness!"
• "We're so happy for you!"
• "I'm seeing a fun-filled life in your future. Congratulations!"
• "So honoured to spend this happy occasion with you and your family."
• "Wishing you the best today and beyond."
• "Congratulations!"
• "Here's to a long and happy married life!"
• "Wishing you lots of love and a lifetime of happiness."
• "We/I love you. Congrats!"
• "Lots of love today and beyond."
• "Here's a little something to start your life together."
• "So happy to celebrate this special day with you both!"
• "Let the adventure begin!"
• "We/I wish for married life to bring all that you hoped for and more."
• "Warmest wishes for a fun-filled future together."
• "Wishing you a wonderful life together."

Religious Wedding Wishes

Christian Wedding Wishes

"May God bless you on your wedding day and for many years to come."

"Love conquers all, and we are so excited to celebrate your love as you say 'I do' in the presence of God. Congratulations on your wedding day!"

"May each day of your marriage be a celebration of your love for each other and your love for God."

"I pray your lives together are filled with many blessings, love, and happiness, and that God will guide you through any challenges you may face."

"As you move into your new lives as a married couple, know that God is with you every step of the way."

"I see God's love reflected in the love you share for each other."

"May God bless you both as you embark on your exciting new journey together!"

"What God has joined, let us celebrate!"

"God's love will be the binding that keeps your marriage strong."

"Put your trust in God's guidance, and you will be blessed with a lifetime of happiness."

"May your lives, now joined, walk together hand in hand with God."

"May God grant you all of life's blessings and love's joys."

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. [...] Love never fails." — 1 Corinthians 13:4-13

"May God bless your marriage together with lots of love and joy."

"Congratulations on your nuptials. May God bless you with His Love, His Wisdom, and His Guidance."

"May the Once who created you and brought you together to bless your marriage, enrich your lives, and deepen the love you share with each other throughout the years."

Jewish Wedding Wishes

"Mazel Tov! May the joy that is yours today always fill your life."

"May you be blessed, always."

"May this special day you share together be filled with love and laughter. May all of the days ahead be lived happily ever after. Mazel Tov!"

"May you be blessed with an abundance of resources and comforts and be helpful to one another in all ways."

"May you be strong and complement one another through life."

"May you live in perfect harmony together, true to your personal values, promises, and commitment to each other."

Islamic Wedding Wishes

"May your marriage be filled with love, blessings, and joy. Congratulations on your Islamic wedding."

"Wishing you a lifetime of happiness and togetherness as you begin your journey as husband and wife. Congratulations on your Islamic wedding."

"May Allah shower his blessings upon your union and make your love for each other grow stronger each day. Congratulations on your Islamic wedding."

"As you enter this sacred bond, may Allah guide and protect you both. Congratulations on your Islamic wedding."

"May your love for each other always stay true, and may your marriage be filled with abundant blessings. Congratulations on your Islamic wedding."

"May Allah bless your wedding with love, happiness, and prosperity. Congratulations on your Islamic wedding."

Wedding Card Messages for Friends

When writing a wedding card message for your friends, it's a good idea to consider the following:

• How well do you know the couple? If you are very close, you may want your message to be more heartfelt and include personal memories. If your relationship is more casual, a simple and straightforward message is best.
• What are their personalities like? If they are silly and carefree, a funny message will likely be appreciated. If they are more reserved, a formal and romantic message may be more appropriate.
• Are they religious? If so, including a spiritual verse or sentiment will likely be well-received.
• Are you attending the wedding? If not, it is not necessary to explain your absence, but adding a "wish we could be there" will let the couple know you are thinking of them.
• "I'm so happy to call you both my friends. Congratulations!"
• "May you bring each other as much happiness as your friendship has brought to my life—and more!"
• "Here's to love and friendship!"
• "We've been friends since childhood, and who would have thought that we'd all be married one day? But it happened, and today is your marriage! Wishing you trust, understanding, patience, and love."
• "Of all the big life events we've celebrated over the years, today tops the list."
• "That fortune teller we saw in Vegas was right. You did meet the man/woman of your dreams. Best wishes to you both!"
• "Cheers to love, laughter, and happily ever after!"
• "To my best friend on your wedding day, your happiness is everything to me. The fact that you've found your someone means the world. Congratulations!"
• "May your marriage bring as much happiness to your life as our friendship has brought to mine."
• "You make my friend shine brighter than they ever have before, and it's for that reason alone that I'm willing to share them with you. Cheers to finding your forever."
• "I can't think of anyone in the world more deserving of happiness than you, my friend. I can't wait to see what life has in store for you both. Congrats!"
• "I hope the years ahead are filled with nothing but hugs and kisses, my friend, because no one deserves happily ever after more than you!"
• "I'm so happy to call you both my friends. Congratulations!"
• "May you bring each other as much happiness as your friendship has brought into my life—and more!"
• "We're so thrilled to celebrate this wonderful day with you both."
• "I'm so thrilled to celebrate this wonderful day with you both!"
• "Here's to a wonderful wedded life, you two. These moments are priceless."
• "I can't wait to see the wonderful moments you will create together!"

Wedding Wishes for Family Members

When writing a wedding card for a family member, you can be as general or personal as you like. Here are some ideas for wedding wishes to your family members:

Formal Wedding Wishes

• "Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness."
• "Your wedding day will come and go, but may your love forever grow."
• "Best wishes on this wonderful journey as you build your new lives together."
• "May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy."
• "Congratulations on a beautiful beginning to married life."
• "May your joining together bring you more joy than you can imagine."
• "May today be the beginning of a long, happy life together."
• "May the love and happiness you feel today shine through the years."

Casual Wedding Wishes

• "Wishing you lots of love and a lifetime of happiness."
• "We're/I'm so happy for you!
• "Wishing you a long and happy marriage."
• "Wishing you the best today and always."
• "So happy to celebrate this day with you both!"
• "Best wishes for a fun-filled future together."
• "Wishing you all the love and happiness in the world!"
• "We're so happy for you! Here's to a long and happy marriage!"
• "Today is just the beginning of the fun! Looking forward to celebrating this season with you."

Funny Wedding Wishes

• "Our marriage advice: love, honour, and... scrub the toilet."
• "Thanks for the free booze. Best wishes on a long, happy marriage."
• "Marriage marks the end of a love story and the start of a wrestling match. Wishing you the very best of everything anyway."
• "I'll tell you the secret of a happy marriage. It remains... a secret to all! Wishing you all the best of times ahead."
• "Marriage is so beautiful. You have finally found that one person you get to annoy all through your life."
• "Congratulations on signing your life away!"
• "Being married is like any other job; it helps if you like your boss!"
• "Let the fighting commence! Congratulations, married couple."

Religious Wedding Wishes

• "May God bless you and your union."
• "May God grant you all of life's blessings and love's joys."
• "Love God first and it will be easier to love your spouse second."
• "We are looking forward to finding out what God has planned for you two."
• "Your marriage will be strong because the two of you are strong in your faith."
• "May God's love be the glue that holds your marriage together."
• "We pray that God will bless your marriage and guide you in your new journey together."
• "May the One who brought you together bless your marriage, enrich your lives and deepen your love throughout the years."
• "'God has poured out His love into our hearts.' Romans 5:5"

Frequently asked questions