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Wedding invitation envelopes can be a headache to navigate, especially when it comes to formal weddings. The outer envelope is the one that gets stamped and addressed, while the inner envelope only contains the names of the invitees. The outer envelope is formal, with the recipient's full name and title, while the inner envelope is more informal, with the option to leave out certain elements of the formal name format.
When addressing a married couple with the same last name, the traditional format is Mr. and Mrs. [First name] [Last name]. For same-sex couples, either name can go first. If the couple prefers to keep things modern, the format can be changed to Mr. [First name] [Last name] and Mrs. [First name] [Last name].
For married couples with different last names, the outer envelope can include their full names with Mr. or Mrs. in front. The person you are closest to can be listed first, or you can go in alphabetical order. For example, Ms. Maria Stevens and Mr. David Estevez.
Unmarried couples living at the same address are addressed on the same line, with each person's name on a separate line. Again, the person you are closest to goes first. An example would be Mr. Stanley Kim and Ms. Amanda Rhee.
Single guests are invited separately, and their titles depend on their age and marital status. Mr. is used for males over 18, while Mrs. is for married women, and Miss for single women and girls under 18. Ms. is a catch-all address for unmarried women over 30 or when you are unsure of their marital status.
When inviting a family, the outer envelope can simply include the family name, such as The Brady Family. If you want to be more specific, you can list the parents' names, with each child's name listed on the inner envelope.
| Characteristics | Values |
|---|---|
| Married couple, same last name | "Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Warren" |
| Married couple, different last names | "Ms. Maria Stevens and Mr. David Estevez" |
| Married couple, one hyphenated last name | "Mr. Marcus Craft and Mr. Brian Crosby-Craft" |
| Unmarried couple | "Mr. Stanley Kim and Ms. Amanda Rhee" |
| Single female | "Ms. Stephanie Chen" |
| Single male | "Mr. James Montgomery" |
| Married couple, one person is a doctor | "Doctor Tami Takata and Ms. Christina Smith" |
| Married couple, both are doctors | "The Doctors Smith" |
| Couple with other distinguished titles | "The Honorable Josephine Wood and Mr. Jonathan Wood" |
| Family, including children | "The Thompson Family" |
What You'll Learn
How to address a wedding envelope to a married couple
When addressing a wedding envelope to a married couple, there are a few things to keep in mind. Firstly, consider the formality of your wedding. For a formal wedding, using titles such as Mr., Mrs., Ms., etc., is recommended, whereas for a more casual wedding, you may choose to forgo these titles.
For a married couple with the same last name, the traditional way to address the envelope is to use "Mr. and Mrs." followed by the husband's first and last name. For example, "Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Warren". If you are inviting a same-sex couple, either name can go first. For a more modern approach, you can include both first names, for example, "Thomas and Michelle Warren". If the couple is sensitive to the woman's name being left out, you can address the envelope as "Mr. Thomas Warren and Mrs. Michelle Warren".
If the married couple has different last names, write their names on the same line with the woman's name first. For example, "Ms. Maria Stevens and Mr. David Estevez". If one person has a hyphenated last name, include both last names. For example, "Mr. Marcus Craft and Mr. Brian Crosby-Craft".
When addressing the inner envelope, you can drop the formal titles and use only the first names or last names of the couple. For example, "Thomas and Michelle" or "Mr. and Mrs. Warren".
It is important to use the person's preferred title, especially if they have a distinguished title such as Doctor, Lawyer, Judge, or Military personnel. In such cases, use their title followed by their name. For example, "Dr. Anne Barker and Mr. Peter Underwood". If both partners have the same title, you can address them as "The Doctors Smith".
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How to address a wedding envelope to an unmarried couple
When addressing a wedding envelope to an unmarried couple, there are a few things to keep in mind. Firstly, it is important to use the correct titles and spell out the full names of each guest. The outer envelope should include their personal titles and full names, either on one or two lines. For example:
> Mr. Aaron Triguiero
> Ms. Amanda Rhee
Or
> Mr. Aaron Triguiero and Ms. Amanda Rhee
If you are using two lines, a secret cue that the couple is unmarried is to write their names independently, without the word "and" between them. This format also indicates that the couple lives together. If they don't live together, they should receive separate invitations.
When addressing the outer envelope, list the person you are closest to first. If you know them both equally well, you can go by alphabetical order. The same rules apply to same-sex couples.
For the inner envelope, you can include their titles and last names or just their first names. For example:
> Mr. Triguiero
> Ms. Rhee
Or
> Aaron and Amanda
If you are sending a more casual invitation, you may be able to get away with using just their first names on the outer envelope, for example:
> Ed and Kara
However, if you want to be more formal, it is best to stick to the traditional format of including titles and full names.
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How to address a wedding envelope to a single person
When addressing a wedding invitation envelope to a single person, it's important to use their preferred title. If you're unsure, it's better to leave out the title altogether. Here are some examples to help you understand better:
Example 1: Without a Plus-One
On the outer envelope: Use "Mr." for a male guest, "Ms." for a female guest, and "Mx." for a non-binary guest, followed by their full name. For instance, "Mr. James Montgomery" or "Ms. Stephanie Chen".
On the inner envelope: You can use their last name or full name, such as "Mr. Montgomery" or "James", or "Ms. Chen" or "Stephanie".
Example 2: With a Plus-One
On the outer envelope: Use the appropriate title followed by their full name, such as "Mx. Sam Li".
On the inner envelope: Write their full name followed by "and Guest", like "Sam Li and Guest".
Additionally, if you're addressing a widowed woman, it's common to use her married name, but you can also ask for her preference. For a divorced woman, you can use either "Mrs." or "Ms." depending on whether she uses her married or maiden name.
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How to address a wedding envelope to a family
When addressing a wedding invitation envelope to a family, there are a few things to keep in mind. Firstly, decide whether you want to specify which family members are invited or invite the whole family. If you want to specify individual family members, write the names of each invited family member, starting with the parents' names, followed by the children's names in order of age. Here is an example:
> The Simpson Family
> Mr. and Mrs. Homer Simpson
> Mr. Bart Simpson
> Miss Lisa Simpson
If you are inviting the entire family, use the family name or just the parents' names on the outer envelope:
> The Simpson Family
> or
> Mr. & Mrs. Homer Simpson
Then, on the inner envelope, list the first names of all invited family members:
> Mr. and Mrs. Simpson
> Bart, Lisa, and Maggie
> or
> Homer, Marge, Bart, Miss Lisa, and Miss Maggie
It is important to note that female children under the age of 18 are typically addressed as "Miss". If you are only sending one envelope, include the names of all invited family members on the outer envelope to ensure clarity.
Additionally, if you are having a casual wedding, you may choose to address the envelopes less formally, such as omitting titles or using first names only. However, for a more formal event, it is generally recommended to use titles and full names.
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How to address a wedding envelope to someone with a distinguished title
When addressing wedding invitations, it's important to consider the formality of your wedding and the preferences of your guests. Here are some guidelines for addressing envelopes to individuals with distinguished titles:
Doctors
When inviting two married doctors, address them as "The Doctors", which can be spelled out or abbreviated.
Outer envelope:
- The Doctors Gabriel Roy and Alina Roy
- Drs. Gabriel Roy and Alina Roy
Inner envelope:
- The Doctors Roy
- Dr. Gabriel Roy and Dr. Alina Roy
If only one spouse is a doctor, their name should be listed first with the title "Dr."
Outer envelope:
- Dr. Sophie Peterson and Mr. Tyrone Peterson
- Doctor Sophie Peterson and Mr. Tyrone Peterson
Military Personnel
When addressing military personnel, use their military title followed by their name.
Outer envelope:
- Lieutenant Jonathan Kelly, US Navy and Mrs. Jane Kelly
- Captains Jane and Jonathan Kelly, US Navy
Inner envelope:
- Lieutenant Kelly, US Navy and Mrs. Kelly
- The Captains Kelly
Lawyers
When inviting lawyers, use "Esq." after their names.
Outer envelope:
- Michelle Brown, Esq. and Mr. John Brown
- Michelle Brown, Esq. and John Brown, Esq.
Inner envelope:
Mr. and Mrs. Brown
Judges
When inviting judges, use "The Honorable" before their name.
Outer envelope:
The Honorable Gina Rodriguez and Mx. Alice Rodriguez
Inner envelope:
Judge Rodriguez and Mx. Rodriguez
Other Distinguished Titles
For other distinguished titles, such as reverends, the same rules as above apply. Whichever half of the couple "outranks" the other, regardless of gender, their name should be listed first. If both titles don't fit on one line, indent the second line.
Outer envelope:
- The Honorable Josephine Wood and Mr. Jonathan Wood
- Captains Josephine and Jonathan Wood, US Navy
Inner envelope:
- Judge Wood and Mr. Wood
- The Captains Wood
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Frequently asked questions
On the outer envelope, write "Mr. and Mrs." followed by the husband's full name. On the inner envelope, write their last name or first names.
Write their full names on the same line on the outer envelope, with the woman's name first. If the names are too long, write them separately. On the inner envelope, write their last names or first names.
Spell out "Doctor" and write their full names on the outer envelope. Abbreviate "Dr." and write their names on the inner envelope.
Write both names on one line on the outer envelope, with the person you are closest to listed first. On the inner envelope, write their last names or first names.
Use "Mr." for males over 18, "Mrs." for married women, "Miss" for single women and girls under 18, and "Ms." for unmarried women over 18 or when unsure. Write their full name on the outer envelope and their title and last name or first name on the inner envelope.
