Inviting Guests To Reese And Cyrus' Wedding: A Guide

In the Nintendo Switch game Animal Crossing: New Horizons, players can invite villagers to Reese and Cyrus's wedding. This can be done by going to the Dodo Airlines and asking to take a trip to Harv's Island, where the wedding takes place. Players can also invite villagers to the event by using Amiibo cards.

Deciding on a guest list strategy: A-list/B-list or groups

Deciding on a guest list strategy can be one of the most challenging parts of wedding planning, especially when there are conflicting opinions. Here are some tips for creating an A-list/B-list strategy or groups to help manage your guest list:

Start with a Realistic Budget

Before creating your guest list, it's important to first determine your wedding budget and how many people you can afford to accommodate. The number of guests will impact your spending on food, venue, rentals, and more. It will also influence the type of venue you can choose, as different venues have different capacity limits.

Identify Decision-Makers and Discuss Wedding Day Goals

While the guest list is ultimately up to the couple, it is considered polite to include other parties who are contributing financially, such as parents or grandparents, in the decision-making process. Traditionally, the couple gets one-third of the guest list, and each set of parents gets another third. However, you can adjust this distribution based on your specific situation and relationships.

Discuss the type of wedding you envision as a couple. Do you want an intimate occasion with only your nearest and dearest, or a big celebration with hundreds of guests? This will help guide your guest list strategy.

Determine your VIPs (A-List)

Start by identifying your non-negotiables or "must-haves." These are the people you absolutely want by your side on your wedding day, such as immediate family and close friends. It's helpful to create a separate list of these VIPs first, so you know they will never be cut from the list.

Brainstorm a Master List and Separate into Groups

Once you have your VIP list, create a master list of all the other guests you'd like to invite. This can include extended family, friends, colleagues, and anyone else you'd like to celebrate with. From this master list, you can start to separate guests into groups or tiers of priority.

You can refer to the following groups as your A-list, B-list, and C-list, or simply number them by priority. The A-list includes your VIPs, and the B-list and C-list are for guests you'd like to invite if space and budget allow.

When creating these groups, consider the following strategies:

• If you're inviting a group of people who know each other, such as coworkers or extended family, it's best to either invite the entire group or leave them off the list to avoid hurt feelings.
• Be mindful of plus-ones. You don't have to offer plus-ones to everyone, but consider setting a clear rule, such as only allowing plus-ones for engaged or long-term couples.
• Decide if you want to have an adults-only wedding, which can help reduce the guest list numbers.
• Use vision boards or saved collections on Instagram or Pinterest to visualize your groups and priorities.

Manage Parents' Expectations

If your parents or in-laws are contributing financially, they will likely want to have a say in the guest list. While it's important to respect their input, it's also crucial to set boundaries to manage their expectations. Be firm and honest about your preferences to keep family drama to a minimum.

Finalize and Send Invitations

Once you've agreed on a final A-list with your partner and any other decision-makers, it's time to send out invitations. Make the “RSVP by” date clear and follow up with late RSVPs promptly. If some guests are still undecided, give them a deadline by which they need to respond, after which you may offer their spot to someone on your B-list.

Repeat this process for your B-list and C-list, sticking to your timeline and batch mailing the invitations to avoid confusion.

By following these steps, you can create a well-organized guest list strategy that ensures your wedding day is shared with the people who matter the most to you.

Plus-ones: who to include and how to decide

Planning a wedding guest list is no easy feat, especially when it comes to deciding who gets a plus-one. Here are some tips to help you navigate the tricky world of plus-one wedding etiquette and decide who to include.

Who Should Get a Plus-One?

Firstly, it is important to note that there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to plus-ones, and every wedding is different. That being said, there are some traditional guidelines that can help you decide. According to wedding etiquette, spouses, fiancés, and live-in partners of each guest should receive an invitation. This is true even if you have never met them before; your guest and their partner are a package deal. The same goes for the bridal party; it is courteous to extend a plus-one to members of the wedding party as a token of appreciation for their support.

You may also want to consider guests who are in a serious relationship, even if they are not living together. If you have the budget, it is a nice gesture to allow these couples to attend together. This also applies to out-of-town guests who may not know many people at the wedding. Giving them the option of a plus-one can make them feel more comfortable and less lonely.

Who Doesn't Need a Plus-One?

On the other hand, some guests do not need to be offered a plus-one. Single guests who are casually dating, for example, do not need to bring a date. If someone hasn't been in a relationship for a year or more, it is not a priority to allow them to bring their partner. Similarly, single guests who will know other people at the wedding will likely be comfortable without a plus-one. If your single guests have friends or family at the wedding, they will have a good time without needing to bring a date.

Practical Considerations

Of course, one of the biggest factors in deciding who gets a plus-one is the budget. Each additional guest costs money, and venues can only hold a certain number of people. If you are on a tight budget or have limited space, you may not be able to offer a plus-one to everyone. In this case, it is common to create an "A-list" of guests who get a plus-one and a "B-list" of guests who do not, or who will be invited if there is space.

Dealing with Guest Queries

Finally, be prepared for guests to ask about bringing a plus-one if they have not been offered one. It is a good idea to have a kind but firm response prepared, explaining that you would love to include everyone but are restricted by your budget or venue size.

Invitation Etiquette

When it comes to invitations, be clear about who is invited. If a guest has not been offered a plus-one, do not address the invitation to "and guest". Instead, address it to the individual's name only. If you are happy for them to bring a plus-one, you can address the invitation to the primary guest and "invited guest", or include a plus-one note inside the invitation.

Children: whether to invite and how to decide

It's a contentious issue, but it's absolutely acceptable to have an adults-only wedding. It's your wedding, and you get to make the rules. However, you should be prepared for some guests to be unable to attend if they can't find childcare.

If you do decide to invite children, it's best to either invite all children or to limit the invite to children in the wedding party or immediate family. This will help to avoid any potential upset among your guests.

Communicating Your Decision

It's important to communicate your decision clearly and directly to your guests. Address your wedding invitations properly, and consider including an adults-only announcement on your wedding website. You could also call guests with children to explain your decision.

Pros and Cons of Inviting Children

Downsides to Inviting Children

• Budget: Children's meals can be expensive and may raise the cost of your wedding.
• Unpredictability: If you're looking for a refined atmosphere, children might not be the best fit, as they can be loud and unpredictable.
• Guest enjoyment: It can be difficult for guests to relax and enjoy themselves if they need to look after their children.
• Venue: Some venues have limited capacity, and you may prefer to invite more adult guests. Other venues may not be appropriate for children.
• Destination weddings: Guests may not want to bring their children to a wedding abroad, and you might not want children disrupting the child-free weekend of other guests.

Upsides to Inviting Children

• Atmosphere: Children can add laughter, fun, and a great atmosphere to your wedding, creating memories you'll treasure forever.
• The wedding party: You might want to share the day with close family members or friends and their children, such as a niece acting as a flower girl.
• Guest expenses: Some guests may not be able to afford childcare on top of the cost of attending your wedding, so they may not be able to come if their children can't.

Keeping Children Entertained

If you do decide to invite children, there are several ways to keep them entertained:

• Hire a children's entertainer, such as a magician, face painter, or storyteller.
• Set up a kids' room with Disney films, board games, and healthy snacks.
• Provide activity packs or goody bags as wedding favours.
• Hire outdoor games or an indoor arcade machine.
• Set up a craft corner with paper, crayons, and pens.
• Hire wedding nannies or creche services to give parents a break.

Coworkers: how to decide which to invite

Deciding which coworkers to invite to your wedding can be a tricky task, but there are a few guidelines to help you decide.

Firstly, it's worth noting that you are under no obligation to invite any coworkers to your wedding. If you prefer to keep your work and personal life separate, that is entirely your prerogative. This is the easiest way to avoid any potential drama or hurt feelings.

However, if you do want to invite some of your coworkers, there are a few questions you can ask yourself to help you decide who to include:

• Do you socialise with them outside of work? If you meet up regularly outside the office, go out for meals or drinks, or celebrate birthdays and other occasions, then you are likely quite close and they could be considered for an invite.
• Are you genuine friends? If you were to leave your job, would you want to maintain the friendship? If so, they are probably a good candidate for an invitation.
• Will you be friends long-term? Your wedding is a memorable life event, and you want the people who will be in your life for the long haul to be there to celebrate with you.
• Do they fit within your budget and headcount? This can be a key factor in deciding who makes the cut.
• Are they someone you couldn't imagine your wedding day without? If their presence is important to you and you can't imagine walking down the aisle without them, then they should definitely be on the guest list.

If you are inviting some coworkers but not others, it's important to be mindful of people's feelings and try to keep wedding talk to a minimum at work. You could also consider explaining to your uninvited coworkers that you can't invite everyone and would prefer not to discuss the wedding in the office to avoid offending anyone.

Ultimately, the decision is yours, and you should invite people because you like them and want them there, not because you feel pressured or obligated.

Last-minute guests: how to invite them

So, you've had a few last-minute cancellations and now you want to know how to invite guests at the last minute to Reese and Cyrus's wedding? Don't worry, it's absolutely possible to do this without causing offence. Here's a step-by-step guide:

Think about logistics

Consider the venue size, seating space and budget. If it's easy to add new guests, go ahead and do so. If not, explain to your intended guests that, due to tight space at the reception, it's not possible to invite them.

Extend a personal invitation

Rather than sending out invitations in bulk, it's best to extend a personal invitation to each last-minute guest. You can do this face-to-face, on a phone call, via text or through email. Make sure it's personalised to them.

> "Hey [name]! I know this is last minute, but I wanted to invite you to our wedding. It's been a crazy few months with COVID, and we weren't sure what our guest limitations would be until recently. We'd really love for you to be there, but of course, no pressure!"

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> "Hi [name], I wanted to let you know that we've received our final guest count and have some extra room. So, if you want to bring a plus-one, you are more than welcome to! Thanks for bearing with us while we finalised our numbers!"

Send a formal invitation

Even if it's close to the wedding date, it's important to send a formal wedding invitation to make your guests feel valued.

Let them know there's no pressure to attend

Weddings are a big time and money commitment, so make sure your guests know that they shouldn't feel pressured to attend at short notice. You should also explicitly say that you don't expect a wedding gift.

Offer other options to attend

With hybrid weddings becoming more popular, you could consider inviting guests to attend virtually. That way, they won't have to find childcare, make hotel accommodations or get a new outfit!

When sending last-minute invites, you could include something like:

> "We know this is short notice. However, we'd really like to celebrate with you! We are including a live stream option so you can tune in and watch online."

Frequently asked questions