Bridesmaids, Get Your Party Shoes On!

The morning of a wedding is an exciting time for bridesmaids, and what better way to get ready for the big day than with a fun and upbeat playlist? From girl-power anthems to classic love songs, there are plenty of tunes to choose from to get everyone in the party spirit. The movie Bridesmaids also captures this excitement, with its humorous take on the adventures of a group of bridesmaids, as they navigate the challenges of wedding preparations. So, whether it's enjoying a glass of champagne, donning matching robes, or singing along to your favourite tunes, it's safe to say that the bridesmaids are ready to party!

Pre-wedding songs to get ready to

The morning of your wedding can be a rollercoaster of emotions, from nervousness to excitement and joy. The right pre-wedding songs can help you embrace these emotions and settle your nerves. You'll want a mix of fun singalongs and chilled-out tracks to keep you zen if you get nervous. Here is a selection of songs to get you and your crew hyped for the main event:

"Chapel of Love" by The Dixie Cups

This song is perfect for getting everyone in the wedding mood with its lyrics: "Because we're goin' to the chapel and we're gonna get married".

"Bang Bang" by Jessie J, Ariana Grande, and Nicki Minaj

A great reminder that "you need a good girl to blow your mind".

"Wannabe" by the Spice Girls

This classic will get everyone singing along with its iconic lyrics: "If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends/Make it last forever, friendship never ends".

"Firework" by Katy Perry

Katy Perry's empowering anthem will have you feeling like a "firework" and ready to "show 'em what you're worth".

"Love Story" by Taylor Swift

For the romantic at heart, this song will have you dreaming of your "love story" and your partner saying "yes".

"You're The One That I Want" from Grease

Get everyone in the wedding spirit with this classic from Grease, with its catchy lyrics: "You're the one that I want...Ooh-ooh-ooh, honey".

"Low" by Flo Rida ft. T-Pain

A fun and upbeat song to get everyone moving and grooving.

"Toxic" by Britney Spears

This song will have you feeling the excitement and danger of love with its addictive beat and lyrics: "Baby, can't you see I'm calling?/A guy like you should wear a warning/It's dangerous, I'm falling".

"Call Me Maybe" by Carly Rae Jepsen

A light-hearted and flirty song with a catchy chorus that will have everyone singing along: "Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy/But here's my number, so call me, maybe".

"Run the World (Girls)" by Beyoncé

A girl power anthem to remind you and your crew that "girls run the world".

"No Scrubs" by TLC

This song will have you feeling confident and knowing your worth: "No, I don't want no scrub/A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me".

There you have it! A selection of songs to get you and your crew hyped and ready for the big day. So pop that bubbly, turn up the volume, and get ready to celebrate!

Matching robes and champagne

Matching robes are a great way to unite your bridal party and create lasting memories. They are also practical, as they are easy to take on and off, preserving hair and makeup before the ceremony. Matching robes also make for Insta-worthy getting-ready photos and can be kept as mementos of your special day.

There are many options available for matching robes, from different styles, colours, and fabrics. Here are some ideas for matching robes and champagne for your bridesmaids:

Satin Robes

Satin is a popular choice for bridal party robes. It is a smooth and glamorous fabric that will elevate your getting-ready photos. You can find satin robes in various colours, including champagne, blush, navy, and black. Some satin robes also feature lace accents or floral prints for a more whimsical look. Etsy, The Knot Shop, and Birdy Grey offer a wide range of satin robe options that can be personalised with monograms or your bridal party's names.

Silk Robes

Silk is another luxurious option for bridal party robes. It is a soft and elegant fabric that will make your bridesmaids feel pampered. Silk robes are available in various colours and can be personalised with monograms. Etsy and Lunya offer washable silk robe options.

Floral Robes

Floral robes add a whimsical and romantic touch to your getting-ready ensemble. You can find floral robes in various fabrics, including satin, silk, and cotton. Some floral robes feature ruffles or lace accents for a more delicate look. Birdy Grey, Etsy, and Kennedy Blue offer a range of floral robe options in different colours and styles.

Robes with Personalisation

Personalising your bridal party robes adds a special touch and makes for a memorable keepsake. You can embroider names, initials, or wedding roles on the robes. Some shops also offer custom text options, allowing you to add a fun twist to your robes. Etsy, The Knot Shop, and Birdy Grey offer a variety of personalisation options for their robes.

Champagne

Champagne is a festive and elegant choice to pair with your matching robes. You can pop open a bottle of champagne for your bridesmaids to sip while they get ready, adding to the celebratory atmosphere. You can also incorporate champagne-coloured robes into your ensemble for a cohesive look. Show Me Your Mumu offers champagne-coloured satin robes that are perfect for a celebration.

Girl power anthems and upbeat hits

If you're looking for some girl power anthems and upbeat hits to get the party started, look no further! Here are some songs that are sure to get your bridesmaids in the zone and celebrate female empowerment:

Girl Power Anthems:

• Survivor" by Destiny's Child: With lyrics like "I'm the survivor / I'm gonna make it / I will survive / Keep on survivin'", this song is all about resilience and overcoming tough times.
• That's My Girl" by Fifth Harmony: This song will have you feeling ready to take on any challenge. It's all about celebrating your strength and ability to bounce back.
• Run the World (Girls) by Beyoncé: Queen Bey reminds us that girls run the world! It's a confident and inspiring anthem for all women.
• Respect by Aretha Franklin: This classic song is all about demanding respect and recognizing your worth. It's a timeless anthem that still resonates today.
• I'm Every Woman by Chaka Khan: Chaka Khan's powerful vocals in this song celebrate the many roles and strengths of women.
• Girl on Fire by Alicia Keys: For those days when you need an extra boost of inspiration, this Alicia Keys anthem will light your fire.
• Stronger by Britney Spears: Britney's "Stronger" is all about emerging from tough times with newfound strength and confidence.
• The Man by Taylor Swift: This song highlights the double standards and sexism that women, even powerful ones, often face. It's an eye-opening and empowering anthem.
• Miss Independent by Kelly Clarkson: While it's great to be independent, this song also acknowledges that it's okay to be vulnerable and let someone in.

Upbeat Hits:

• Juice by Lizzo: This song is all about self-love and embracing your shine. It's sure to get your bridesmaids feeling confident and ready to party!
• Heroes (We Could Be) by Alesso ft. Tove Lo: With an uplifting message about the power of anyone to be a hero, this song will have your bridesmaids feeling inspired.
• Uptown Funk by Bruno Mars: This fun and energetic song will get everyone on the dance floor. It's all about bringing the funk and having a good time.
• Here For the Party by Gretchen Wilson: This upbeat tune is all about letting loose and having a good time. It's perfect for getting the party started!
• Party in the U.S.A. by Miley Cyrus: This song will have your bridesmaids feeling like they're at a party in the USA! It's fun, upbeat, and sure to get everyone moving.
• Best Day of My Life by American Authors: Celebrating the best day of your life? This song will definitely set the right tone and keep the energy high!
• Let's Get It Started by the Black Eyed Peas: This classic party anthem will get your bridesmaids pumped and ready to celebrate.
• Walking on Sunshine by Katrina and the Waves: This upbeat and cheerful song will have your bridesmaids feeling like they're "walking on sunshine"!
• Raise Your Glass by P!nk: With a message of celebration and inclusivity, this song will have your bridesmaids toasting to the happy couple and the good times ahead.
• Levels by Avicii: This song by Avicii has a great beat and an uplifting message about having a good feeling that you've never had before.
• Let's Go Crazy by Prince: Why not go a little crazy on your wedding day? This classic Prince song will definitely get the party started!

Getting ready with your bridesmaids

Timing and Scheduling

It's important to schedule ample time for you and your bridesmaids to get ready. Hair and makeup can be time-consuming, so consider the number of people and plan accordingly. Allow 30-45 minutes per person and 60-90 minutes for the bride. If you're hiring professionals, you may need more than one hairstylist and makeup artist to work on your bridal party, to ensure you stay on schedule.

Order of Preparation

Think about the order in which people will get ready. You might want to schedule the most responsible bridesmaids earlier in the morning to avoid delays. Consider any external factors, such as bridesmaids with young children, and plan around their availability. If you're doing your own hair and makeup, or having a professional do it, decide whether to do hair or makeup first. If a particular hairstyle needs time to set, it may be more efficient to start with hair and move on to makeup while it sets.

Getting Ready Outfits

Plan some fun, matching outfits for you and your bridesmaids to wear while you get ready. Pretty robes are a popular choice, but you could also choose button-down shirts, rompers, pyjama sets, or jumpsuits. Look for comfortable, easy-to-remove garments that won't mess up hair and makeup.

Food and Drink

Remember to eat and drink while you're getting ready. Opt for energising foods like whole grains and fats, and protein and fibre combinations. Keep some light snacks like nuts, crackers, and fruit on hand, and stay hydrated with plenty of water.

Photography

If you're having a photographer, they will usually arrive about an hour before the bride is ready to capture those getting-ready shots. They'll take photos of you and your bridesmaids applying last-minute lipstick, putting on jewellery, and having your dress fastened. They'll also take detail shots of your wedding outfit, shoes, bouquet, etc.

Post-wedding party ideas

Post-wedding parties are a great way to extend the celebration and spend more time with your loved ones. The event is typically more intimate and laid-back, with no set rules regarding location, décor, or food. Here are some creative and fun ideas for a post-wedding party:

• Outdoor BBQ or Pizza Party: This is a popular choice for a relaxed afternoon with food, drinks, lawn games, and music. It works well for summer weddings in the countryside, and many venues can arrange everything for you. Just be sure to have a backup plan in case of rain.
• Brunch or Pub Lunch: For a low-key option, organise a casual meal like brunch or a pub lunch. It's perfect for city weddings, especially if your venue can host you for a second day. It's simple, and there's no need for elaborate décor or entertainment.
• Outdoor Games: If your guests enjoy activities, consider organising a round of golf, archery, paintballing, or other outdoor games. This works well for smaller groups and can be arranged by most countryside venues.
• Outdoor Excursion: If your wedding venue is in a beautiful location, consider planning a hike or a walk to enjoy the scenery. This option may not appeal to everyone, but it's a great way to make the most of your surroundings.
• Picnic: An outdoor picnic is a charming way to spend an afternoon, and it can work well in both countryside and city settings. It does require some organisation, and you'll need a backup plan in case of bad weather.
• Spa Day: A spa day is an excellent way to unwind and relax after the wedding. It may not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's a great option for the bridal party or close friends to bond and recharge.
• Classes or Entertainment: Hire an expert to instruct your guests in a new discipline, such as origami, cookery, or tai chi. Alternatively, bring in entertainers like caricature artists, magicians, or fortune tellers. This option adds a unique and personalised touch to your post-wedding celebration.
• Movie Screening: For a laid-back and stress-free option, book a private cinema or set up a projector. It's a low-commitment activity for guests and can be paired with drinks, brunch, or dinner for a more social experience.
• Trad Session: If you're getting married in Ireland and have international guests, a trad session is a must. Hire musicians or ask guests to bring their instruments, and find a suitable space like a local pub. It's a fun way to immerse your guests in the local culture.
• Sporting Event: If there's a sporting event happening after your wedding, consider taking your guests to cheer on your favourite team together. It's a unique way to finish your wedding celebrations and can be a fun activity for a smaller group.
• Second-Day Disco: Hire a dance floor and a DJ to keep the party going. A silent disco is a fun twist, allowing guests to chat without the noise restriction. This option is great when the vibe is more relaxed, and guests have gotten to know each other better.
• Murder Mystery: A murder mystery party is a unique and memorable choice. It can be as elaborate or low-key as you like, with costumes, props, or a simple parlour-style game. It's a versatile option that can be tailored to your budget and guest list.
• Tasting: Organise a wine, whiskey, beer, or gin tasting for your guests. You can book a private tour and tasting at a distillery or brewery, often including food and music. This option may not appeal to those driving or recovering from the previous day's festivities.

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