Starry Night Wedding: Inviting You To Wish Upon A Star

When it comes to wedding invitations, many couples are now opting for cash gifts to help with wedding expenses or honeymoon costs. Asking for money, however, can be a little uncomfortable. A wedding wishing well is a great way to get around this. A wishing well is a box at a wedding where guests can deposit cash gifts. It is usually accompanied by a 'note on gifts' which is sent out with the invitations, and a sign at the venue. The wording for these can be playful, purposeful, formal, or casual. For example, a playful poem might go:

> Your love and laughter at our wedding is all we truly need.

> But a wishing well contribution will be warmly received.

> Your presence at our wedding is present enough, so don't worry about gifts, we have plenty of stuff.

> However, if you were thinking of helping us on our way, some money towards our honeymoon would truly make our day.

Wishing Well Wording Ideas: Simple, Playful, Purposeful, Formal and Casual

Simple Wishing Well Wording Ideas:

Keep it short and sweet with these simple wishing well wording ideas.

• Your presence at our wedding is a gift in itself. However, if you would like to contribute to our future together as a couple, a wishing well will be available at our reception.
• Your gift of love and support is all we need on our special day. However, if you would like to give a gift, we will have a wishing well at our reception.
• We are blessed to have each other, and the guests who will make our wedding day so special. We’d rather not receive gifts, but if you’d like to contribute to our wedding and our future together, we will have a wishing well at our reception to which you can contribute.

Playful Wishing Well Wording Ideas:

Add a touch of fun to your wishing well wording with these playful ideas.

• Your love and laughter at our wedding are all we truly need. But a wishing well contribution will be warmly received.
• Your presence at our wedding is present enough, so don't worry about gifts, we have plenty of stuff. However, if you were thinking of helping us on our way, some money towards our honeymoon would truly make our day.
• We'll remember your kindness wherever we roam, before we settle down and build a home. Thank you for sharing our special day, and helping us on our journey in every way.
• We’re simply so grateful for your presence here, to celebrate our love and cheer. As we begin our journey anew, we’ll cherish your friendship into our future, too.

Purposeful Wishing Well Wording Ideas:

These purposeful wishing well wording ideas are perfect if you're saving for something special.

• Your presence on our wedding day is the most special gift we could possibly ask for. However, if you do wish to bless us and contribute to our future together, we are saving for our new home. A wishing well will be present at our reception.
• We’re thrilled that you’re able to make it to our wedding - that’s more than enough for us. However, if you would like to bring us something, spending money for our honeymoon would be most appreciated.
• Your presence on our wedding day is the best gift of all, but if you would like to help us create special memories on our honeymoon, we've set up a wishing well where you can contribute to our honeymoon fund.
• We are thrilled to celebrate our special day with all of our loved ones. And of all the gifts you could bring, your presence is the most cherished. However, if you would like to contribute to our wedding costs, we will have a wishing well set up at our reception. We appreciate your love and support and can't wait to create unforgettable memories together on our wedding day.

Formal Wishing Well Wording Ideas:

If you're looking for a more formal way to word your wishing well, try these ideas.

• While your presence on our wedding day is a cherished gift, we understand some guests like to offer more. In lieu of a traditional gift, we would be grateful for a monetary contribution towards our life together. If you would like to participate, you can leave your donation and well wishes in our wishing well, which will be available at our reception.
• As we embark on this new chapter of our lives, we are grateful for the love and support of our family and friends. If you feel inclined to contribute to our wedding costs and the beginning of this next step in our lives together, we have set up a wishing well where you can leave your well wishes and support. No matter how big or small, your generosity is greatly appreciated.
• Although you are happy to host your guests on your wedding day, the truth is that costs do add up. Ultimately, how can you get your wishing well wording just right, so as to make guests feel welcome and comfortable while also nudging them in the direction of gifting cash rather than a salad bowl (that you don’t necessarily need)?

Casual Wishing Well Wording Ideas:

For a more relaxed approach, try these casual wishing well wording ideas.

• No gifts are necessary - we just want to see you! If you do wish to give us a little something, a little cash to spend on our honeymoon (or our new home) would be very much appreciated.
• We can't imagine our wedding day without having all our loved ones here to celebrate with us. We know some of you have come from far and wide, and we're so grateful for the effort you've taken. If you'd like to give a little something extra to help start our journey on the right foot, we've got a wishing well set up where you can drop your cash and loving messages. Thank you all for being a part of our day.
• We don't need big presents, just the presence of our loved ones. However, if you would like to contribute to our honeymoon (or future home), we have a wishing well set up at our reception.
• Having you all with us on our special day is a dream come true. We're so grateful for the effort you've taken to be here. If you'd like to give a little something extra to help start our journey on the right foot, we will have a wishing well set up where you can drop any cash you’d like to contribute.

Wishing Well Signage Ideas

Rustic Wishing Well Sign

This signage idea features a wooden base with a white or clear acrylic card box on top. The box is where guests can place their cards and gifts. The sign itself can be made of wood or acrylic and can be personalised with the couple's names and wedding date. This signage idea is perfect for a rustic or outdoor wedding.

Modern Wishing Well Sign

For a more modern take on the wishing well sign, consider using a clear acrylic sign with modern typography. This type of sign can be customised with the couple's names, wedding date, and even a QR code for guests to scan. This option is perfect for a modern or minimalist wedding.

Elegant Calligraphy Wishing Well Sign

An elegant option for a wishing well sign is to use beautiful calligraphy. This can be done on a clear or white acrylic sign, with black or gold lettering. This type of sign is perfect for a classic or elegant wedding.

Simple Arch Wishing Well Sign

A simple yet effective wishing well sign idea is to feature a simple arch design at the top of the sign. This can be done in black and white or with a touch of colour. This type of sign is perfect for a wedding with a simple or minimalist theme.

Honeymoon Fund Wishing Well Sign

If the couple is planning a honeymoon, you can incorporate this into the wishing well sign. This can be done by adding a QR code or a simple message requesting that guests contribute to the honeymoon fund. This type of sign is perfect for a travel-themed or destination wedding.

Quotes to Include in the Invitation

When it comes to wedding invitations, quotes can add a touch of elegance, humour, sophistication, or romance. Here are some quotes that would be perfect for a "When You Wish Upon a Star"-themed wedding invitation:

For the Romantics:

• “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” - Dr Seuss
• “Love is the flower you've got to let grow.” - John Lennon
• “The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.” - Helen Keller
• “Take my hand, take my whole life too. For I can’t help falling in love with you.” - Elvis Presley
• “To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.” - David Viscott
• “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” - Audrey Hepburn
• “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds.” - Nicholas Sparks

For the Dreamers:

• “If I know what love is, it is because of you.” - Hermann Hesse
• “You are every reason, every hope and every dream I’ve ever had.” - Nicholas Sparks
• “Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.” - Oliver Wendell Holmes
• “Where there is great love, there are always miracles.” - Willa Cather

For the Realists:

• “A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” - Dave Meurer
• “Love is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction.” - Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
• “Love is an endless act of forgiveness.” - Beyoncé
• “Love one another and you will be happy. It’s as simple and as difficult as that." - Michael Leunig

For the Soulmates:

• “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” - Aristotle
• “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” - Maya Angelou
• “Two souls with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one.” - John Keats
• “It's amazing how one day someone walks into your life, and suddenly, you can't remember how you lived without them.” - Anurag Prakash Ray

For the Philosophers:

• “Love is the joy of the good, the wonder of the wise, the amazement of the Gods.” - Plato
• “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” - Lao Tzu
• “Love is not consolation. It is light.” - Friedrich Nietzsche
• “Love is the difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.” - Iris Murdoch

For those who Keep it Simple:

• “A heart that loves is always young.” - Greek Proverb
• “Love is like a friendship caught on fire.” - Jeremy Taylor
• “Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.” - Robert Browning
• “Love is the beauty of the soul.” - Saint Augustine
• “Where there is love there is life.” - Mahatma Gandhi
• “Love is the only gold.” - Alfred Lord Tennyson

For those with a Sense of Humour:

• “Some people are worth melting for.” - Olaf, Frozen
• “Hey baby, I think I wanna marry you.” - Bruno Mars
• “Love is being stupid together.” - Paul Valery
• “Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.” - Carroll Bryant

Tips for What to Write in the Invitation Card

When You Wish Upon a Star Wedding Invitation Tips

When it comes to your wedding invitations, you want to set the right tone for your big day. Here are some tips to help you craft the perfect invitation card for your "When You Wish Upon a Star"-themed wedding:

Choose the Right Words

Select your words carefully to reflect the magic and whimsy of your theme. Here are some ideas to get you started:

• "Wish Granted: You're Invited!"
• "When You Wish Upon a Star, Dreams Come True. Join Us to Celebrate Our Dream Come True!"
• "Make a Wish and Join Us on Our Special Day!"
• "Wishing for Your Presence on Our Wedding Day"
• "Our Wish Is for You to Join Us Under the Stars"

Incorporate Celestial Elements

Bring your theme to life by incorporating celestial elements into your invitation design. Consider using starry backgrounds, moon and star illustrations, or even a constellation map of the night sky on your wedding day.

Add a Touch of Magic

Enhance the magical feel of your invitations with some special touches. Try using sparkly or glittery paper, or add a sprinkle of star-shaped confetti inside the envelope for a delightful surprise.

Set the Tone with Font and Colour Choices

The fonts and colours you choose can also contribute to the overall theme. Opt for elegant and cursive fonts to evoke a sense of enchantment. As for colours, a combination of dark blues, purples, and silver will create a starry night sky effect.

Include a Wish-Themed RSVP

Stay consistent with your theme by incorporating wishes into your RSVP. For example, "I wish to attend" or "Wishing to attend." This will add a playful touch to your invitations.

Provide a Hint of What to Expect

Give your guests a glimpse of what they can look forward to at your starry-themed celebration. Mention any celestial-themed activities or details, such as stargazing, constellation-themed cocktails, or a wish-upon-a-star send-off.

Remember, your invitation is the first impression your guests will have of your wedding, so make it magical and memorable!

When to Send the Invitation

Traditionally, wedding invitations are sent out 6 to 8 weeks before the wedding. This gives your guests enough time to plan and RSVP. Sending your invitations early is especially important if you're having a destination wedding, as it gives your guests more time to prepare and make travel arrangements.

If you're having a small, intimate wedding, you may want to send out your invitations a little earlier – around 3 months in advance. This will give your guests a better chance of being able to attend.

It's also a good idea to set an RSVP date that's a few weeks before the wedding. This will give you a final headcount for catering and other arrangements.

• Include all the necessary information: date, time, location, dress code, and RSVP details.
• Consider including a separate card with your gift preferences, such as a wishing well or a contribution to your honeymoon fund.
• If you're having a themed wedding, feel free to incorporate that into your invitations to get your guests excited!
• Proofread your invitations carefully before sending them out.
• Don't forget to include your return address on the envelopes so that your guests can easily RSVP.

Happy planning, and may your wedding wishes come true!

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