Rhiannon Hendricks
Wedding wishing wells are a common way for couples to ask for cash gifts to contribute to their future together, whether that's towards a honeymoon, a house deposit, or wedding expenses. Asking for money can be uncomfortable, so couples often include a polite note or poem with their invitations to explain their wishes. This note should emphasise that monetary gifts are not mandatory and that the couple's main wish is to have their guests celebrate with them.
| Characteristics | Values |
|---|---|
| Tone | Formal, casual, funny, inspirational, religious |
| Length | Short, simple, long |
| Content | Congratulatory, well-wishing, thankful, religious, humorous |
Wishing well wording
Simple Wishing Well Wording
Your presence at our wedding is a gift in itself. However, if you would like to contribute to our future together as a couple, a wishing well will be available at our reception.
Your gift of love and support is all we need on our special day. However, if you would like to give a gift, we will have a wishing well at our reception.
We are blessed to not only have each other, but the guests who will make our wedding day so special. We’d rather not receive gifts, but if you’d like to contribute to our wedding and our future together, we will have a wishing well at our reception to which you can contribute.
Playful Poems Wishing Well Wording
Your love and laughter at our wedding is all we truly need.
But a wishing well contribution will be warmly received.
Your presence at our wedding is present enough, so don't worry about gifts, we have plenty of stuff.
However, if you were thinking of helping us on our way, some money towards our honeymoon would truly make our day.
We'll remember your kindness wherever we roam, before we settle down and build a home.
Thank you for sharing our special day, and helping us on our journey in every way.
We’re simply so grateful for your presence here, to celebrate our love and cheer.
As we begin our journey anew, we’ll cherish your friendship into our future, too.
If you’d like to contribute to our wishing well, however, you’ll help us create memories tonight and forever.
Whether big or small, it's the thought that counts, and we'll be thankful for every penny that amounts.
Thank you for your love, support, and care. Mostly it means the world that on our day you were there.
Purposeful Wishing Well Wording
Your presence on our wedding day is the most special gift we could possibly ask for. However, if you do wish to bless us and contribute to our future together, we are saving for our new home. A wishing well will be present at our reception.
#1 We’re thrilled that you’re able to make it to our wedding - that’s more than enough for us. However, if you would like to bring us something, spending money for our honeymoon would be most appreciated.
#2 Your presence on our wedding day is the best gift of all, but if you would like to help us create special memories on our honeymoon, we've set up a wishing well where you can contribute to our honeymoon fund.
We are thrilled to celebrate our special day with all of our loved ones. And of all gifts you could bring, your presence is the most cherished. However, if you would like to contribute to our wedding costs, we will have a wishing well set up at our reception. We appreciate your love and support and can't wait to create unforgettable memories together on our wedding day.
Formal Wishing Well Wording
While your presence on our wedding day is a cherished gift, we understand some guests like to offer more. In lieu of a traditional gift, we would be grateful for a monetary contribution towards our life together. If you would like to participate, you can leave your donation and well wishes in our wishing well, which will be available at our reception.
As we embark on this new chapter of our lives, we are grateful for the love and support of our family and friends. If you feel inclined to contribute to our wedding costs and the beginning of this next step in our lives together, we have set up a wishing well where you can leave your well wishes and support. No matter how big or small, your generosity is greatly appreciated.
Casual Wishing Well Wording
No gifts are necessary - we just want to see you! If you do wish to give us a little something, a little cash to spend on our honeymoon (or our new home) would be very much appreciated.
We can't imagine our wedding day without having all our loved ones here to celebrate with us. We know some of you have come from far and wide, and we're so grateful for the effort you've taken. If you'd like to give a little something extra to help start our journey on the right foot, we've got a wishing well set up where you can drop your cash and loving messages. Thank you all for being a part of our day.
We don't need big presents, just the presence of our loved ones. However, if you would like to contribute to our honeymoon (or future home), we have a wishing well set up at our reception.
Having you all with us on our special day is a dream come true. We're so grateful for the effort you've taken to be here. If you'd like to give a little something extra to help start our journey on the right foot, we will have a wishing well set up where you can drop any cash you’d like to contribute.
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Simple and Direct
"We are truly grateful for your presence at our wedding, but if you would like to give us something, we would appreciate a contribution to our honeymoon fund."
"We are fortunate to already have everything we need, but if you would like to give us something, we would be grateful for a contribution to our honeymoon fund."
In Lieu of Gifts
"As we embark on our new journey together, your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. However, if you would like to contribute to our special day, we have set up a honeymoon fund instead of registering for traditional gifts. Your donation will help us create unforgettable memories. To contribute, simply visit [insert link to your online honeymoon fund]."
"As we join together to celebrate our wedding day, your love and support mean the world to us. If you are considering giving us a gift, we would be honoured if you would contribute to our honeymoon fund instead. Your generosity will help us create unforgettable memories and start our lives together on an incredible adventure. Donations can be made at [insert link to your online honeymoon fund]."
Informal
"We are thrilled about our wedding, and we hope you can attend! Because we are combining households, we have more than enough stuff. So, instead of a traditional wedding registry, we have decided to set up a honeymoon fund. Contributing to our fund will help pay for our honeymoon — you can also give us specific gifts, such as date nights, spa treatments, and adventurous excursions. We can't wait to head off on our honeymoon, and we'll be sharing lots of photos of our time.
To contribute, simply visit [insert link to your online honeymoon fund]."
"We can't believe the big day is almost here, and we're so excited to celebrate with all of you! Your presence at our wedding is the best gift we could ask for, but if you're still thinking about getting us something, we've got a different idea. We'd love it if you could contribute to our honeymoon fund instead! Your donation will help us create memories that will last a lifetime.
You can make a contribution at [insert link to your online honeymoon fund]
Thanks for being a part of our special day. We can't wait to celebrate with you!"
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Wishing Well Poems
If you're looking for a gentle and creative way to ask for gifts of money, a wishing well poem is a great option. This approach has become increasingly common, with nearly 90% of couples already living together before marriage and having their homes set up. Here are some ideas for your poem:
"Our two families have come together as one. We really hope you can join in the fun. A wishing well we thought would be great, but only if you wish to participate. A gift of money is placed in the well, then make a special wish, but do not tell! Please do not be offended by our request, as our day is complete having you as a guest."
"If you were thinking of giving a gift to help us on our way, a gift of cash towards our house would really make our day. However, if you prefer a gift, feel free to surprise us in your own special way."
"If finding a gift is hard to do, perhaps our wishing well is for you. A gift of money is placed in the well, then make a wish... but do not tell! If, however, a gift you'd prefer to find, be assured, we will not mind."
"So what do you get for the Bride and Groom, whose house needs things in every room? When shopping for a gift, you needn't be rash, as there's always the option to just give cash!"
"We hope you don't find our request to be funny, the decision is yours: to buy a present or give money. Now you have the choice, please do not fuss. The most important thing of all is that you're there to celebrate with us!"
Direct Approach
If poetry isn't your style, you can simply word your request politely. Here's an example:
"The most important thing is to have you with us on our special day. No gifts are needed or expected, however, we have been asked what we need or would like, and if you do wish to give us something, a little cash to spend on our honeymoon would be very much appreciated."
Other Considerations
Remember, while you may prefer cash gifts, your guests may not. Some may not have the financial means, while others may prefer to give you a special gift. Make it clear that monetary presents are not mandatory and that you are merely making a request. You can include your poem or polite message on your invitation or as a separate notelet in the same envelope.
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Simple Wishing Well Wording
A straightforward way to communicate your preference for monetary gifts is to include a separate card in the same envelope as your invitations. This card can simply state that your presence is a gift in itself, but if guests would like to contribute, a wishing well will be available at the reception. Here are some examples:
> Your presence at our wedding is a gift in itself. However, if you would like to contribute to our future together as a couple, a wishing well will be available at our reception.
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> Your gift of love and support is all we need on our special day. However, if you would like to give a gift, we will have a wishing well at our reception.
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> We are blessed to not only have each other, but the guests who will make our wedding day so special. We’d rather not receive gifts, but if you’d like to contribute to our wedding and our future together, we will have a wishing well at our reception to which you can contribute.
Playful Poems
If you want to add a bit of fun and creativity to your invitations, consider including a playful poem that hints at your preference for monetary gifts. Here are some examples:
> Your love and laughter at our wedding is all we truly need.
> But a wishing well contribution will be warmly received.
>
> Your presence at our wedding is present enough, so don't worry about gifts, we have plenty of stuff.
> However, if you were thinking of helping us on our way, some money towards our honeymoon would truly make our day.
>
> We're thrilled that you're able to make it to our wedding - that's more than enough for us. However, if you would like to bring us something, spending money for our honeymoon would be most appreciated.
>
> Your presence on our wedding day is the best gift of all, but if you would like to help us create special memories, we've set up a wishing well where you can contribute to our honeymoon fund.
Purposeful Wishing Well Wording
If you prefer a more direct approach, you can explicitly mention that you are saving for a specific goal, such as a new home or your wedding costs. Here are some examples:
> Your presence on our wedding day is the most special gift we could possibly ask for. However, if you do wish to bless us and contribute to our future together, we are saving for our new home. A wishing well will be present at our reception.
>
> We don’t need big presents, just the presence of our loved ones. However, if you would like to contribute to our honeymoon (or future home), we have a wishing well set up at our reception.
>
> We don't want to offend, but we have it all—all household goods and so much more. To save you shopping, sit back and rest, a gift of currency is all we request.
Formal Wishing Well Wording
For a more formal approach, you can emphasize that your priority is your guests' attendance, but also mention that monetary contributions are welcome. Here are some examples:
> While your presence on our wedding day is a cherished gift, we understand some guests like to offer more. In lieu of a traditional gift, we would be grateful for a monetary contribution towards our life together. If you would like to participate, you can leave your donation and well wishes in our wishing well, which will be available at our reception.
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> As we embark on this new chapter of our lives, we are grateful for the love and support of our family and friends. If you feel inclined to contribute to our wedding costs and the beginning of this next step in our lives together, we have set up a wishing well where you can leave your well wishes and support. No matter how big or small, your generosity is greatly appreciated.
Remember, it is generally considered a faux pas to ask for money directly on your wedding invitations. Instead, use a separate card or include a line or two on your information card. You can also spread the word through close friends and family members or provide a link to your wedding website, where you can express your preference for monetary gifts.
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Wishing well poems
The concept of a 'wishing well wedding' is a popular trend for modern couples. It involves placing a decorative wishing well at the wedding venue, where guests can deposit their monetary gifts and best wishes. This tradition replaces the traditional gift list and allows guests to contribute to a house deposit, honeymoon fund, or the couple's next life stage.
Poem 1:
> Our two families have come together as one.
> We really hope you can join in the fun.
> A wishing well we thought would be great,
> But only if you wish to participate.
> A gift of money is placed in the well,
> Then make a special wish, but do not tell!
> Please do not be offended by our request,
> As our day is complete, having you as a guest.
Poem 2:
> Because at first, we lived in sin,
> We've got the sheets and a rubbish bin.
> A gift from you would be swell,
> But we'd prefer a donation to our Wishing Well.
> A gift of money is placed in the well,
> Then make a wish but do not tell,
> Cause as the well's tradition goes,
> Your wishes will come true, you know!
Poem 3:
> Now we are to be Mr & Mrs,
> We don't need a wedding list of dishes.
> A holiday is what we need,
> So your help with this would be a great gift indeed.
> So should you wish to honour us with a gift,
> We have registered a honeymoon fund
> where you can make a contribution to help us make our honeymoon
> a memory that will last a lifetime.
Poem 4:
> We don’t want to offend, but we have it all,
> Household goods, and so much more.
> To save you shopping, looking and buying,
> A gift of currency, we thought you'd like trying.
> Don’t go overboard, or rob any banks,
> Anything will make us smile, with hearts full of thanks.
> Now that we have saved you all the fuss,
> We hope you will come and celebrate with us.
Poem 5:
> If finding a gift is hard to do,
> Our wishing well is just for you.
> A gift of money is placed in the well,
> Then make a wish, but do not tell.
> We love birds have it all, family, friends and love galore.
> We’d love to save funds for our new nest,
> So we can move in, settle down, and rest.
> But most importantly, we request,
> That you join us as our guest.
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Frequently asked questions
A wedding wishing well is a box at a wedding where guests can deposit cash gifts for the newly married couple. It is a convenient and tidy way to accept money and cards from guests.
It is important to send out a 'note on gifts' along with the wedding invitations. This can be sent as a separate piece of card in the same envelope as the invites. On this card, you can write about your gift preferences as a couple.
Here are some examples of wedding wishing well wording:
- Your presence at our wedding is a gift in itself. However, if you would like to contribute to our future together as a couple, a wishing well will be available at our reception.
- Your gift of love and support is all we need on our special day. However, if you would like to give a gift, we will have a wishing well at our reception.
- We are thrilled to celebrate our special day with all of our loved ones. And of all the gifts you could bring, your presence is the most cherished. However, if you would like to contribute to our wedding costs, we will have a wishing well set up at our reception.
