Wedding Registry: Appliances, Yes Or No?

There are mixed opinions on whether it is appropriate to put large appliances on a wedding registry. Some people believe that it is acceptable, especially if the couple is planning to purchase the appliances themselves and use any monetary gifts they receive towards buying them. Others argue that it is in poor taste and that large appliances are not typically expected to be purchased as wedding gifts. Ultimately, it is up to the couple to decide what they want to include on their registry, but it is worth considering the potential reactions of guests before adding any expensive or unconventional items.

Large appliances as gifts

Large appliances are often essential items for a wedding registry, especially if the couple is moving into a new home. While some people may raise their eyebrows at the inclusion of large appliances on a wedding registry, it is not uncommon for couples to include them. It is important to be mindful of your guests' budgets and not include too many expensive items.

If you are worried about how your guests will react to large appliances on your registry, there are a few things you can do. Firstly, you can include a mix of items at different price points so that your guests have a variety of options to choose from. You can also consider adding the large appliances to your registry after your wedding and using any monetary gifts you receive to purchase them. This is a common practice, and many stores offer completion discounts for registry items purchased after the wedding. Another option is to ask your close friends and family to spread the word that you are saving up for new appliances and would appreciate monetary gifts or contributions towards larger items.

• Oven
• Fridge
• Microwave
• Stand mixer
• Blender
• Food processor
• Slow cooker
• Pressure cooker
• Toaster
• Waffle maker
• Coffee maker
• Espresso machine

Group gifting

For example, if you're eyeing a pricey stand mixer or food processor, you can make it a group gift so your friends and family can pitch in. This option is especially useful if you're registering for appliances, which tend to be more expensive.

Some things to keep in mind:

• When you make an item a group gift, the price will go up slightly to account for tax. This is so that you don't have to pay anything out of pocket when you're ready to ship the gift.
• Guests can still purchase the whole gift if they want to.
• Group gifting is usually not available for items linked from another store or registry.
• Keep track of contributions in your gift tracker, so you know who to thank for their generosity.
• Once a group gift is fully funded, you can choose to ship it or convert it to store credit. If it's not fully funded, you'll receive the cash balance of all donations as store credit.

Cash registries

While some people may consider it to be in poor taste to add appliances to a wedding registry, others think it is acceptable. However, if you are looking for an alternative option, you could consider a cash registry.

A cash registry is a way for guests to give money towards the things you need or want as a couple, without sounding tacky or shameful. There are several websites that allow you to set up a cash registry, such as:

• HoneyFund: This site allows you to set up an account and explain to family and friends what you will be spending the money on. People can send cash directly or use PayPal.
• Deposit A Gift: Create a personal website to keep guests updated on wedding details and include a cash registry with a note explaining how you will use the money.
• NewlyWish: Pull items from various stores and boutiques for your registry and also request cash. This site charges a 2.7% credit card processing fee that is deducted from the cash gift.
• Our Wishing Well: Guests can contribute to different funds (e.g. honeymoon, luggage sets) however much they like. This site charges a 1% transaction fee, and you can transfer cash directly to your bank account.
• Zank You: A popular option in Europe that also has an app, so guests can pay up while they are Instagramming during the ceremony!
• Wedding Republic: Specialises in cash registries and offers a "puzzle-piece" feature where people can chip in towards one large donation.
• Upon Our Stars: Register for cash gifts by creating a "wish list" for things like a new apartment or a dream trip. Friends and family can then contribute towards that goal.
• SimpleRegistry: Register for different types of gifts and experiences, all of which are cash refundable.
• Merci Registry: Set up a cash registry through PayPal. The service includes a 2.9% PayPal cut and promises no hidden fees.
• Tendr: A no-frills way to get cash for your wedding, without the option for physical gifts. Guests can choose from 12 different e-cards and you can send thank-you cards directly from the registry. There is a 2.7% fee on credit cards, plus a dollar.

There are also some all-in-one wedding planning platforms that allow you to set up a cash fund, such as The Knot and WithJoy. These platforms usually offer additional features like wedding websites, guest lists, and RSVP tools.

Asking for appliances indirectly

• Register for a variety of items at different price points, including some less expensive options. This way, guests have a range of choices and don't feel pressured to spend more than they are comfortable with. You can include a few appliances on your registry, but be mindful of how many you add to avoid giving the impression that you are expecting these items from your guests.
• Spread the word that you are saving up for new appliances. This way, guests may be more inclined to give cash or gift cards, which you can then use to purchase the appliances you need.
• Ask your close friends and family members for their honest opinions about including appliances on your registry. They may have valuable insights into what is appropriate for your specific situation and guest list.
• If you are planning to purchase appliances anyway, you can add them to your registry after your wedding and use any monetary gifts you receive to make the purchases. This option may be subject to rules and restrictions, so be sure to check with your registry provider.
• Register for other home improvement items or smaller appliances that guests may be more comfortable gifting. You can then use any monetary gifts or gift cards you receive to put towards the appliances you need.
• If you are moving into a new home, you can register for items typically needed when setting up a new household. This may include some small appliances or items that complement appliances, such as cookware or bakeware.

Remember, it's important to be mindful of your guests' perspectives and comfort levels when it comes to gift registries. Including a range of items at different price points can help ensure that your guests feel they have options that align with their budgets and preferences.

Appliance quality

When it comes to wedding registries, it's important to offer your guests a range of options at different price points. While some guests may be happy to chip in for a big-ticket item, others may prefer to give a smaller gift.

If you're looking to upgrade your appliances, it's worth considering the following:

Mixers and Attachments

A stand mixer is a popular registry item, and for good reason. The iconic KitchenAid stand mixer, for example, features a tilt-head design, a durable stainless steel bowl, and a range of attachments and speeds to meet all your mixing needs. It also comes in a variety of colours to suit any kitchen aesthetic. If you're short on space, a hand mixer like the Cuisinart Power Advantage Plus 9-Speed Mixer is a great option. It comes with a sturdy case to store all the attachments, including extra-long beaters, a chef's whisk, and dough hooks.

Blenders and Food Processors

A good blender or food processor is a must for any kitchen. The Vitamix Ascent Series A3500 Blender is a top-choice appliance, offering speed control and a pulse feature to adjust textures. It's also highly customizable, with a motor base that automatically adjusts blending times based on the container size. For a more budget-friendly option, the Ninja Mega Kitchen System offers the capabilities of a blender and food processor in one, with additional single-serve cups for personal blends.

Toasters and Toaster Ovens

Toasters and toaster ovens are another essential for any kitchen. The Cuisinart Custom Classic Toaster Oven and Broiler can toast up to six slices of bread, heat up pizza, or roast a chicken breast. For a more advanced option, the June Smart Oven can replace up to seven appliances, including an air fryer, slow cooker, and toaster. It's controlled via an app, where you can adjust settings, select pre-programmed recipes, or let the internal camera recognize your food and set the appropriate temperature and cook time.

Specialty Appliances

For couples who love to grill, the Ninja Foodi 5-in-1 Indoor Grill is a versatile option that can also air crisp, roast, bake, and dehydrate. If you're tea or coffee enthusiasts, the Fellow Electric Pour-Over Kettle is a stylish addition to any kitchen, allowing you to set your desired temperature and pour with precision.

While large appliances like washers and dryers may be frowned upon by some, smaller appliances like those listed above are generally considered acceptable and even expected on wedding registries. These suggestions can help you create a well-rounded registry that suits a range of budgets and ensures you're equipped with quality appliances for your new life together.

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