Wedding Wish Tree: Creative Ideas For Guest Contributions

A wedding wish tree is a unique and fun way to involve your guests in your celebration. The tradition, which originated in the Netherlands, involves guests writing their well wishes for the couple on paper leaves or cardstock and hanging them on a tree. This serves as a beautiful centrepiece and an alternative to the traditional guest book. The tree can be placed at the entrance to the reception to wow your guests as they walk in. You can even reincorporate the tree into family events, such as a Thanksgiving tree.

Formal wishes

Formal wedding wishes are perfect for when you want your message to be timeless, traditional and romantic. Here are some examples of formal wedding wishes:

• “Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness."
• "May the years ahead be filled with lasting joy."
• "Best wishes on this wonderful journey, as you build your new lives together."
• "Thank you for letting me share in this joyful day. I wish you all the best as you embark on this wonderful union."
• "Wishing you joy, love and happiness on your wedding day as you begin your new life together."
• "May the love and happiness you feel today shine through the years."
• "Your greatest journey is only just beginning, and I wish you a lifetime of adventures together."
• "I wish for you a life filled with happiness; I wish for you the strength to overcome any obstacles together; I wish for you a love that grows ever stronger each day."
• "You have shared so much love and laughter over your years together, and I know there will be many more joyful moments to come. I wish you all the happiness that you deserve for your married life together."
• "May the love you feel for each other today grow ever stronger and more fulfilling as the years go by."
• "All love stories are special, but yours is one of the most beautiful I’ve had the fortune to witness. I wish you love, laughter and happiness for all your years ahead."
• "May you look back on today with fond memories of the start of your happy future together."
• "As I enjoy the free bubbly on your wedding day, I’ll raise a toast to two of the nicest people I’ve had the pleasure of meeting."
• "The two of you shine with the love you share for each other. May that light get ever brighter as the years go by."
• "Your wedding day may come and go, but may your love forever grow."
• "May your marriage be filled with trust, respect, and love, but above all else, may it be filled with abundant joy."
• "It's a true blessing to know that, for the rest of your life, there's someone in your corner. Through the highs and lows of life, I'm so glad you two have each other."
• "May the two of you continue to love unconditionally and build a joyous life together."
• "May the years ahead be filled with love and joy."
• "May your love grow stronger each and every passing year."
• "Thank you for letting us share in your special day. We wish you all the happiness in the world."
• "Here's to a lifetime full of happiness and love."
• "Wishing you well as you embark on this next chapter of life. Cheers!"
• "May today mark the first of the rest of your life, filled with love and fellowship."
• "Here's to a long, happy life with the one you love. Wishing you the best."
• "Wishing you happiness, love, and joy on your wedding day."
• "Today is the beginning of your next chapter. Here's to you!"
• "It's a joy to celebrate your love."

Casual wishes

Casual wedding wishes are typically short, sweet, and relaxed. Here are some ideas for casual wishes to write on a wedding wish tree:

• "Here's to a long and happy marriage!"
• "Wishing you all of the love and happiness!"
• "We're so happy for you!"
• "I'm seeing a fun-filled life in your future. Congratulations!"
• "So honoured to spend this happy occasion with you and your family."
• "Wishing you the best today and beyond."
• "May your love continue to grow with every kiss."
• "Today is just the beginning of the fun! Looking forward to celebrating this season with you."
• "Congratulations! (Pinky promise it's appropriate.)"
• "Here's to a long and happy life! So proud of you both on this special day."
• "Wishing you a long and happy marriage."
• "Let the adventure begin!"
• "Wishing you the best—today and always."
• "So happy to celebrate this special day with you both!"
• "Here's to love and laughter and a happily ever after!"
• "May your love continue to thrive forever and always."
• "Congratulations! You're finally getting hitched!"
• "Thanks for inviting me to the best party ever! Oh, and congratulations on your wedding!"
• "Eat, drink and be married!"
• "You two have just started your lives together, but you're already starting to look alike!"
• "Marriage is a bond between a person who never remembers anniversaries and another who never forgets them."
• "Don't mess this up! But if you do, just know that you can keep my gift. Congrats!"
• "It's a true blessing to know that, for the rest of your life, there's only one special person you want to annoy. Congratulations!"
• "Marriage: where 'yes, dear' are the magic words."
• "It's good that you two found each other. You're practically the same person in different bodies!"
• "Now you'll both have someone to laugh at your corny jokes!"
• "Best of luck to your new spouse. They don't know what they're getting into. Thankfully, they love you unconditionally!"

Remember, casual wedding wishes should be heartfelt and offer the happy couple a positive wish for their marriage.

Funny wishes

A wedding wish tree is a unique and fun way to involve your guests in your wedding celebration. It is a Dutch custom where guests write their well wishes on cards in the shape of leaves and hang them on a tree. Here are some funny wishes to inspire your guests:

• "Congratulations! You're finally getting hitched!"
• "Thanks for inviting me to the best party ever! Oops, I meant your wedding. Congratulations!"
• "Remember, in order to have a successful marriage, you must fall in love many times and always with the same person."
• "Enjoy your special day because tomorrow the real hard work starts!"
• "Your free booze was greatly appreciated. Wishing you a lifetime of wedded bliss!"
• "Here's the secret to a successful marriage...oh wait, no one has figured that out yet. Good luck!"
• "Congratulations on signing away your freedom and privacy!"
• "Never forget that this might be the happiest day of your life. It's all downhill from here! Best wishes."
• "Best of luck to your new spouse. They don't know what they're getting into. Thankfully, they love you unconditionally!"
• "Now you'll both have someone to laugh at your corny jokes!"
• "It's good that you two found each other. You're practically the same person in different bodies!"
• "Eat, drink and be married!"
• "Congratulations! Here's a piece of advice: don't build furniture together if you want it to last!"
• "Marriage is a bond between a person who never remembers anniversaries and another who never forgets them."
• "Don't mess this up! But in case you do, just know that you can keep my gift... Congrats!"
• "Congratulations on your wedding, may you always be able to put up with each other!"
• "It's a true blessing to know that, for the rest of your life, there's only one special person you want to annoy. Congratulations!"
• "Marriage: Where 'Yes Dear' are the magic words."
• "Getting married is like being in drama school. You get to practice everything from comedy to melodrama to tragedy. Congratulations."
• "Congratulations and best of luck on continuing to ignore the little annoying things."
• "And now you two have officially become one: one bed, one remote, one bathroom!"
• "Congratulations! Thanks for officially taking [insert name] off my hands."
• "I just have one thing to say: finally!"

Inspirational wishes

Inspirational wedding wishes should get the happy couple excited about their future together. It's also a sweet idea to reflect on how special your past has been with one or both members of the couple and how your relationship with them has shaped who you are today. Here are some examples:

• Your love inspires me—here's to my favourite couple.
• You've come so far and your future together is so bright. Happy wedding day.
• Talk about the wedding of the century! Same time next year for your anniversary?
• I can't wait to see how the rest of your love story unfolds.
• Power couple alert! Congratulations!
• May every day together see your love grow deeper.
• Today is just the beginning, it gets even better.
• Thanks for giving me an example of what true love is.
• You shine so bright together.
• Beyoncé and Jay Z have nothing on you two.
• Your love is truly one for the ages.
• The joy you give each other is so clear to see. We love you!
• May your marriage be as strong as your faith.
• May God bless your union and deepen your love through the years.
• Sending you prayers for unending love and happiness.
• Love is the greatest blessing.
• God bless you both on this day with a lifetime of shared love and joy.

Religious wishes

A wedding wish tree is a Dutch wedding custom where guests pen their well wishes to the couple on a piece of paper, which is then hung on a tree. Here are some religious wishes that newlyweds of a Christian faith may appreciate:

"May God bless you and your union."

"Sending prayers for a lifetime of happiness together."

"Praying for a blessed union."

"Congratulations! May the One who brought you together bless your marriage always, enrich the life you spend together, and help deepen your love as long as you live."

"May God bless the two of you on your journey."

"May God grant you a lifetime of love."

"May God bless you both as you embark on your exciting new journey together!"

"May your lives, now joined, walk together hand in hand with God"

"May God bless your marriage together with lots of love and joy."

"Congratulations on your nuptials. May God bless you with His Love, His Wisdom, and His Guidance."

"May God's love be with you and guide you."

"May you always experience the power of prayer."

"Sending you love and prayers for a happy, God-ruled life together."

"May you always find peace and love in God's word."

"May God bless your union."

"May you enjoy a life filled with love and happiness through Christ."

"When we believe in Christ, all doors are open, and happiness follows."

"The keys to marital happiness are delivered through faith, hope, and love as revealed by the Gospel."

"It is through Christ that all things are possible."

"Life with Christ guiding your marriage ensures a successful union."

"It is through the love of God that we learn how to love each other."

"Congratulations! Trust God to guide you in your married life."

"May Lord bless you with happiness as you begin your new life together. Remember forgiveness and respect are key to a happy marriage."

"The bond you have between each other and God will keep you strong and fulfilled throughout your lives."

"God will see you have a long and happy life together. Best wishes."

"May the blessing of God grant you years of happiness by each other’s sides."

"God bless this marriage and may the love you feel today only grow as you spend your life together"

"May His blessings grant you an abundance of love and happiness."

"Your faith is what will see you through the tough times. You have put your lives in the hands of God and he will keep you strong."

"May God bless you, your marriage and your future lives together"

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