Bridal showers are a chance for the bride's nearest and dearest to gather and celebrate the woman of the hour before her wedding. It is also an opportunity to gift the bride essentials to help her start her married life.
While there is no right or wrong way to throw a bridal shower, there are some generally established etiquette guidelines. For example, bridal showers are traditionally held a few weeks to a few months before the wedding and are hosted by the maid of honour or bridesmaids. The guest list is usually limited to those also invited to the wedding, and invitations should be sent out four to six weeks in advance.
When it comes to gifts, it is considered good etiquette to purchase something from the bride's registry. Typical gifts include home goods, kitchen appliances, and personalised items. However, it is not uncommon for lingerie to be given as a gift, especially at lingerie-themed showers. Ultimately, the best gift is something that the bride will love and use.
Characteristics | Values |
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Price range | $30 to $80 |
Type of gift | Home goods, champagne, personalised picture frames, lingerie, appliances, china settings, serving pieces, luxe or customised items, pretty lingerie, jewellery, self-care gifts, kitchenware, travel essentials, comfy pyjamas, initial necklaces, custom stationery, sports equipment, beauty products, clothing, shoes, accessories, home décor, artwork, handwritten letters, unique toasting flutes, a custom jewellery case, cookbooks, food storage, cake-cutting sets, tableware, candles, bath products, towels, bedding, luggage, reusable film cameras, doormats, smart doorbells, sheets, alarm clocks, interior design consultations, cookbooks, food, drinks, games, prizes |
Home essentials
Kitchenware
A multi-purpose pan that serves as a non-stick sauté pan, fry pan, skillet, saucier, saucepan and more, complete with a beechwood spatula and stainless steel steamer basket.
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Honeymoon treats
Honeymoon-Themed Bridal Shower
If you are in charge of planning the bridal shower, why not make it honeymoon-themed? Base the theme on the couple's honeymoon destination. For example, if they are honeymooning in Mexico, you could have a fiesta-themed shower with bright colours, flowers, and festive writing on the invitations. Keep the food simple with easy appetizers and ethnic dishes, and don't forget to point guests to the bride's registry for gift ideas.
Honeymoon Accessories
- Honeymoon luggage tags
- Honeymoon sand keepsake jar
- Honeymoon luggage tags and passport holder set
- Honeymoon essentials, such as sunglasses, flip flops, and a beach hat
- Honeymoon-themed wine bag
Honeymoon Comforts
- A cashmere travel set, including a blanket, eye mask, socks, and a bag
- A silk sleep set
- A bamboo bath caddy
- Luxury bathrobes
- Turkish cotton towels
- Towel warmer
Honeymoon Fun
- Date night box with fun and adventurous ideas for the couple to do together
- A portable Bluetooth speaker for their travels
Remember, it's always a good idea to look at the couple's wedding registry for gift ideas, but it's also nice to surprise the bride with something unique and personalised.
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Lingerie
If you're thinking of throwing a lingerie bridal shower, it's important to first check that the bride is comfortable with the idea and that the guests won't be embarrassed by a party with a sexy theme. Traditionally, the bridal party hosts the bridal shower, with the maid of honour taking the lead. However, these days, it's also acceptable for the bride's mother or other relatives to host.
When it comes to the guest list, typically only the female friends and relatives of the bride are invited, but any gender can be included as long as the bride is comfortable with it. It's also important to choose a private space for the party, to ensure the bride and guests feel comfortable.
- Ask the bride for their lingerie sizes and any allergies they may have, so guests can choose gifts that are suitable.
- Set a date for the shower, ideally between five months and two weeks before the wedding, so the bride can wear the gifts on her wedding night and honeymoon.
- Send invitations to guests at least one month before the shower, including the bride's sizing information.
- Organise some fun shower games, such as a lingerie-themed version of musical chairs or two truths and a lie.
- Plan a delicious food and drink menu, such as slumber party snacks, a charcuterie board, or wine and chocolate pairings.
- Hand out flirty shower favours, such as candles that melt into massage oils or monogrammed silk robes.
Remember, the most important thing is to ensure the bride feels comfortable and celebrated throughout the event!
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Personalised gifts
Customised Clothing and Accessories:
- A custom bag with the bride's name or monogram.
- A personalised sweatshirt or hoodie with the bride's name and wedding date.
- A pair of custom slippers with "Mrs" and the bride's new last name.
- A monogrammed ice bucket for their bar cart.
Home Decor:
- A custom wedding dress hanger with the bride's name, date, or a whimsical heart.
- Personalised wall art featuring the couple's names, the year they met, and their engagement year.
- A monogrammed throw blanket.
- A personalised welcome doormat with the couple's names and wedding year.
Keepsakes and Sentimental Items:
- A custom picture frame with the couple's names and wedding date.
- A handmade ceramic bowl painted with splashes of colour and personalised with the couple's names and wedding date.
- A custom wine bottle with the couple's names and wedding date.
- A personalised ring dish to hold the bride's wedding ring.
Self-Care and Beauty:
- A silk robe with the bride's name or monogram.
- A beauty sleep set, including a silk pillowcase and sleep mask.
- Washable silk sleepwear for the bride, such as a flowing tank top and matching shorts set.
- A monogrammed makeup bag.
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Something blue
Traditionally, bridal showers are an opportunity for the bride's nearest and dearest to gather and celebrate the bride-to-be with gifts that will help her start her married life. Today, gifts can be anything from home essentials to unique, personalised presents.
Blue Stone Jewellery
A piece of jewellery with a blue stone, such as a sapphire, is a great way to incorporate "something blue" into the bride's wedding day outfit. A bracelet, necklace or earrings could be the perfect gift.
Blue Lingerie
Pretty lingerie is a classic bridal shower gift, and choosing a blue set will tick off the "something blue" box.
Blue Silk Pyjamas
Silk pyjamas are a luxurious gift for the bride, and they can be personalised with her new initials. A blue pair will be something she can wear on her honeymoon and beyond.
Blue Toiletry Bag
A toiletry bag is a practical gift, especially if the bride has a lot of travel planned for her honeymoon. A blue bag will be easy to spot in her luggage, and you could even fill it with mini beauty products for her to try.
Blue Stationery
If the bride is old-school and loves writing letters or keeping a journal, a set of blue stationery embossed with her new initials or married name could be a thoughtful gift.
Blue Picture Frame
A picture frame is a simple yet classic gift, and it can be made more special by choosing a blue one. The bride can use it to display her favourite photo from the wedding or honeymoon.
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