The Big Reveal: What Was Whispered At The Wedding?

In the first *Sex and the City* movie, Mr. Big, or John James Preston, whispers to his bride, Carrie Bradshaw, Ever thine, ever mine, ever ours as they kiss after their wedding ceremony. This comes after Big left Carrie at the altar, with the couple eventually reuniting and marrying in a small, intimate ceremony.

Big's reasons for getting cold feet

In the first *Sex and the City* movie, John "Mr. Big" Preston gets cold feet on his wedding day to Carrie Bradshaw. Big's cold feet can be attributed to several factors, including:

The wedding planning

Big and Carrie's wedding plans escalated from a small, intimate ceremony to a large, extravagant affair. Big had already been married twice before, and the prospect of a third wedding, especially one on such a large scale, may have been overwhelming for him. He seemed concerned about how getting married for a third time would reflect on him.

The financial dynamics

When Carrie and Big were planning to move in together, they found a gorgeous penthouse. However, Big ended up buying the condo, which left Carrie feeling slightly financially dependent on him. This dynamic may have contributed to Big's hesitation about the wedding, as it highlighted the power imbalance in their relationship.

The pressure of living up to Carrie's expectations

Carrie had never been married before, and this was her first wedding. She likely had high expectations and dreams of a perfect, fairy-tale wedding. Big, having been married twice before, may have felt the pressure of living up to Carrie's expectations and ensuring that her first wedding was everything she wanted it to be.

The impact of their friends' actions and words

The night before the wedding, at a lavish dinner for the couple, Miranda, one of Carrie's best friends, made a comment that may have played on Big's mind. She said, "You two are crazy to get married. Marriage ruins everything." This statement may have added to Big's anxiety and caused him to question whether he was making the right decision.

His previous marriages

Big's previous marriages may have also contributed to his cold feet. He had been married twice before, and both marriages ended in divorce. The prospect of a third marriage, especially one that was highly publicised and extravagant, may have brought up fears of failure and concerns about his commitment.

On their wedding day, Big tried to reach out to Carrie, calling her multiple times to seek reassurance and comfort. Unfortunately, she missed his calls, and by the time they connected, he had already left. Despite their initial missteps, they eventually reconciled, married in an intimate ceremony, and enjoyed a happy marriage for several years.

How Carrie reacts to Big's cold feet

In the first *Sex and the City* movie, Big and Carrie decide to get married. However, Big gets cold feet on their wedding day. He tries to go through with the wedding, but his cold feet and nerves get the better of him. When he sees Carrie exit her car, he whispers to himself, "Come on, baby, turn around," as if this is a sign that they shouldn't get married. When she doesn't, he leaves.

Carrie is understandably devastated when she finds out Big isn't at the venue. She calls him, and he tells her, "I was out front, but I just left. I can't do this." She drops the phone and leaves. Big realises his mistake and tries to turn around, but it's too late. As they pass each other in separate cars, Carrie gets out and hits him with her bouquet in a soul-crushing scene.

After their failed wedding, Big and Carrie don't speak for a year. When Carrie finally uncovers Big's apology emails, which he wrote during their time apart, they find their way back to each other. Big proposes again, and this time, they get married in a courthouse.

Big's previous marriages

John James Preston, also known as Mr. Big, was married three times. His first wife was Barbara, a children's book publisher. Their marriage ended because he cheated on her.

After his relationship with Carrie Bradshaw began, he married Natasha Naginsky, a woman he felt was a better fit for his life. However, he did not truly love her and cheated on her with Carrie. This marriage was brief, lasting just over a year.

Finally, he married Carrie, his third and final wife. Their relationship had many ups and downs, but they were still happily married 11 years later when he died of a heart attack.

The aftermath of the wedding

The couple does not speak for a year, during which time Carrie goes to Mexico with her friends and works on herself, even dyeing her hair brown in a bid to move on from Big. Meanwhile, Big attempts to win Carrie back by writing her love letters, which she only discovers a year later. Upon reading them, Carrie decides to forgive Big, and the pair reunite in an understated courthouse ceremony, exchanging vows and Manolo Blahnik shoes.

The wedding drama is not the last of the couple's troubles, however, as their marriage is tested when Big suggests they spend time apart. During a trip to Abu Dhabi with the girls, Carrie runs into her ex-fiancé, Aidan, and the pair share a kiss. Consumed by guilt, Carrie confesses to Big, who attributes the infidelity to her lack of previous marriage experience. To reaffirm their commitment, Big gifts Carrie a unique black diamond engagement ring.

Despite their tumultuous relationship, Carrie and Big remain together for several more years, celebrating their second wedding anniversary and appearing to find their groove as a couple. However, tragedy strikes when Big suffers a fatal heart attack, leaving Carrie to grieve the loss of her husband and the love of her life.

The future of their relationship

After a tumultuous relationship filled with several breakups and makeups, John "Mr. Big" Preston and Carrie Bradshaw finally tie the knot in the first *Sex and the City* movie. However, their journey to the altar is not without its fair share of drama and uncertainty. On their wedding day, Big has a moment of cold feet and leaves Carrie at the altar, only to realize his mistake and turn back around. This incident causes a temporary rift in their relationship, but they eventually reconcile and share their vows in a sweet, intimate ceremony.

In the time leading up to their wedding, Big expresses his hesitation about having a large, extravagant affair. Having been married twice before, he is concerned about how a third wedding will reflect on him. Meanwhile, Carrie is excited about the prospect of her first wedding and gets caught up in the planning, resulting in a growing guest list and an ever-expanding vision. Despite their differing views on the wedding, they move forward with the plans.

On the day of the wedding, Big's anxiety reaches a peak. He tries to call Carrie to assuage his fears and seek reassurance, but she is busy preparing and misses his calls. As he waits outside the venue, he sees Carrie arrive but is unable to get her attention. Feeling humiliated and uncertain, Big decides to leave, only to immediately regret his decision. By the time Carrie realizes what has happened and tries to reach out, Big has already driven away. This leaves Carrie devastated and their wedding guests in an awkward situation.

However, their story doesn't end there. After some time apart, during which they have no communication, Big writes a series of love letters to Carrie, expressing his remorse and longing for her. When Carrie discovers these letters, she softens towards him, and they reconnect. Recognizing their strong connection and deep love for each other, they decide to give their relationship another chance. This time, they opt for a simple, intimate courthouse wedding, exchanging vows in a heartfelt ceremony.

Their marriage brings them happiness and stability, and they settle into a peaceful domestic life in their beautiful apartment. Big becomes more emotionally available and vulnerable with Carrie, and their relationship strengthens as a result. However, tragedy strikes when Big suffers a fatal heart attack in the first episode of the revival series, *And Just Like That...*, leaving Carrie to navigate life without her beloved husband.

Despite the challenges and heartache they faced, Big and Carrie's relationship ultimately led them to find comfort and joy in each other's arms. Their future together, though cut short by Big's untimely death, was one of love, growth, and mutual support.

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