Rescheduling Your Big Day: A Guide To Changing Your Wedding Date

Changing your wedding date on The Knot can be done by going to the My Account section on the website and scrolling down to the You and Yours section, where you can edit your wedding date. However, some users have reported issues with changing their wedding date, with the website displaying an incorrect date despite their settings saying otherwise. In this case, it is recommended to contact The Knot's customer support for assistance.

How to change your wedding date on The Knot

Changing your wedding date on The Knot can be done in a few simple steps.

Firstly, log in to your The Knot account. On the homepage, click on the "'My Account' link, which is usually found in the top right corner of the page. Once you're in your account, scroll down to the "'You and Yours' section. Here, you will need to select your role as the bride or groom from the drop-down menu.

After selecting your role, you should see a section where you can edit your wedding date. Simply make the necessary changes, and your new wedding date will be updated on The Knot.

It's important to note that if you have a wedding website through The Knot, it may take 1-2 business days for the new date to reflect on the site. Additionally, if you have a custom domain, be sure to reach out to The Knot before it expires to request a renewal due to date changes.

If you encounter any issues or the date doesn't update as expected, you can try contacting The Knot's customer support for further assistance.

Change-the-date wording suggestions

Changing the date of your wedding can be a frustrating process, but you can make it seamless and stress-free with the right guidance. Here are some suggestions for how to word your change-the-date cards:

If you are rescheduling and don't have a new date yet:

• Due to unforeseen circumstances, we are changing our wedding date. New details to come soon.
• In light of current events, we are changing our date so we can celebrate safely. New details to come soon.
• In light of current events, we are postponing our wedding. New wedding date to come soon.
• We have decided to postpone our wedding to a future date. Please stay tuned for details.
• It’s still happening! …Just at a later date. New wedding date to come soon!
• Social distancing just isn’t our thing. New wedding date to come soon so we can party properly!

If you are rescheduling and have a new wedding date:

• Please mark your calendars with our new wedding date! We can’t wait to celebrate with you.
• We changed our date and can’t wait to celebrate!
• Don’t dust off your dancing shoes yet! Due to unforeseen circumstances, we are now getting married on [insert date].

If you are not rescheduling:

• Due to unforeseen circumstances, we decided to elope! We’re planning a celebration soon and will send you the details.
• We do. We did! Since we aren’t able to celebrate in person, we decided to elope! More celebration details to come.

Change of plans:

While vaccines are being administered across the country, there still isn’t total clarity on when precautions for COVID-19 will no longer be a part of our daily lives. Because of this, you may want to include a line in your change the date about any safety measures you plan to take on the big day. Here’s an example: "Due to unforeseen circumstances, we have postponed our wedding and look forward to celebrating with you on our new wedding date."

Formal change-the-date wording:

Virtual change the dates are easier and less costly to send than paper invitations. You may feel inclined to later follow up with guests with more formal paper cards. In that case, you can consider wording your change the date like this: "Third time’s the charm! Save the date [date] [location]. Formal invitations will be sent by mail by mid-summer of next year. If your address has changed in the last six months, please provide your updated mailing address."

Formal save-the-new-date wording:

If you prefer to send a formal change the date that’s complete with details on the time and place of the rescheduled wedding, you can consider wording your invite like the following example: "Mr. and Mrs. Oliver Grant announce that the marriage of their daughter Elizabeth Anne to Christopher Bonner has been postponed until Saturday, the seventeenth of October two thousand twenty-one at half after five o’clock. Good Shepherd Church. Dinner and dancing to follow. Kindly reply by September 17, 2021."

Funny change-the-date wording:

In times of stress and uncertainty, a good sense of humour goes a long way—even in a change the date. If you want to keep your guests updated on a lighthearted (and realistic) note, consider funny wording: "2020 may have changed our plans, but we know celebrating with you will be worth the wait! [Date] | [Location]"

Heartfelt change-the-date wording:

In a particularly trying time, it’s only natural to want to be with the people you love. And while gatherings aren’t possible right now, you can still let your guests know that they’re in your thoughts with an earnest change the date such as this: "With faith, hope, and love, [Couple's names] invite you to celebrate their wedding on a new date: [Date] Same time, same place. Let us know you’re coming."

Updating your wedding website

Locating the Date Change Option

• Log in to your The Knot account.
• Navigate to the "My Account" or "My Website" section, usually found in the upper right or left corner of the page.
• Under "My Account", scroll down to the "You and Yours" section.
• Ensure that your role is selected as "Bride" or "Groom" in the drop-down menu.
• The wedding date option should now appear at the very bottom of the "You and Yours" section.

Changing the Date

• Simply edit the wedding date field by selecting a new date from the calendar or typing in the new date.
• Save the changes, and give the website some time to update.

Additional Tips

• If you don't see the date option, try selecting your role as "Bride" or "Groom" first, as this seems to have resolved the issue for several users.
• If you're using a different device or browser, try switching, as the "My Account" section may not appear on certain devices or browsers.
• If you're still unable to change the date on your wedding website, contact The Knot's customer support for further assistance.

Remember, it's important to keep your wedding website updated, especially if you've already sent out invitations. This will help keep your guests informed, especially if they have to adjust their travel plans or accommodations. You can also consider sending out "change-the-date" cards or emails to inform your guests of the new date and include a personal note.

Printing your wedding postponement cards

When printing your wedding postponement cards, it is important to maintain a consistent theme and colour palette across your stationery suite. This includes save-the-date cards, wedding invitations, RSVPs, and thank you cards. You can also add personal touches such as engagement photos or a custom illustration of your venue.

• Define a "Change-the-Date": This is synonymous with a wedding postponement card and is typically sent in the form of a digital announcement supplemented by stationery. It should include basic information such as the couple's names, an acknowledgment of the postponement, and a new date and/or location if available.
• Alert your guests promptly: It is important to communicate any changes to your guests as soon as possible, especially if their travel plans may be impacted. You can do this through email, text, phone calls, or a simple digital announcement.
• Include your wedding website: Direct your guests to your wedding website for more detailed information and updates. This is especially useful if you don't have a new date and time yet.
• Choose a format: Wedding postponement cards are typically available in classic, petite, or postcard formats. Choose a format that matches the tone and formality you want to convey.
• Customise the text and wording: Update the text on the card to match the tone of your message. You can also add additional text boxes to provide extra information.
• Consider colours and fonts: Each card design comes with suggested fonts and colourways, but you can customise them to match your wedding colours or fonts from other correspondence.
• Envelope options: Some companies offer free recipient address printing on envelopes, which can save you time and ensure consistency with your previous invitations or save-the-date cards.

Remember to allow enough time for printing and shipping when ordering your wedding postponement cards. It is recommended to send out your notices at least six to eight weeks before the new date to give your guests enough time to reconfirm their availability and rebook travel if necessary.

Troubleshooting incorrect wedding dates

• Check your account settings: Log in to your account and check your profile information. Ensure that the correct wedding date is listed in your account settings. This can usually be found under "My Account" or "My Profile" in the top right corner of the website.
• Select your role: Make sure that you have selected your role as the bride or groom. In some cases, the date option may not appear if your role is left blank or defaulted as a planner/vendor.
• Update your website: If you have created a wedding website, ensure that the date is correct on the site. This may be separate from your account settings, so check both places to ensure consistency.
• Contact customer support: If you are unable to find the option to change the date or if the changes are not reflecting on the website, reach out to customer support. They may be able to help troubleshoot the issue or provide a solution.
• Communicate with your guests: If the incorrect date is causing confusion for your guests, be sure to communicate any changes directly to them. You can do this through email, text, phone calls, or even a digital announcement.
• Send a "Change-the-Date" card: If you have already sent out save-the-dates or invitations, consider sending a "Change-the-Date" card to inform your guests of the new wedding date. This can be a simple digital announcement or printed card.

It is important to stay calm and patient during this process, as troubleshooting can sometimes take time. Don't hesitate to reach out for help if you need it, whether it's from customer support or your wedding party.

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