Asking Groomsmen: Best Man Card Ideas And Tips

Asking your friends to be a part of your wedding party is a big deal, and it's important to do it right. While it may be tempting to shoot them a text, it's much more meaningful to send a handwritten note or card. Whether it's a small surprise in the mail or the finishing touch to a groomsman proposal gift, a card is an ideal way to convey how important their support is to you. There are many different styles of cards to choose from, ranging from funny puns to heartfelt messages. You can even include a gift with the card, such as a bottle of alcohol or a pair of cufflinks. Whatever you choose, make sure it reflects your personality and the tone of your wedding.

Humorous cards

Humorous "Will You Be My Best Man/Groomsman?" Cards

"There Will Be an Open Bar" Groomsmen Card

This card is a humorous way to sell your pals on their role as groomsmen. The cover starts with "Let me start by saying there will be an open bar" and is personalized with each groomsman's name. You can then write a custom note inside to be printed, which is a bonus if you don't have the best handwriting.

"Your Service is Requested" Groomsmen Card

Give your groomsmen a preview of their wedding attire with this card. The front features a watercolour tuxedo illustration with the message "Your service as groomsman is requested." The inside is blank with plenty of room for a handwritten message.

"Time to Suit Up" Groomsmen Card

Tell your buddies it's time to break out their formal wear with these invitations. Printed on black cardstock, "It's time to suit up! Will you be my groomsman?" is written in gold lettering. They're sold in sets of eight, with two dedicated to the best men.

"OK Good Talk" Groomsmen Card

Don't ask, tell! This good-humoured card reads, "You're going to be my groomsman. Ok, good talk." The inside is blank for you to handwrite a personal note or simply sign your name.

"Bro, Do Me a Solid" Groomsmen Card

This card is short and sweet. It states, "Bro. Do me a solid." on the front, with the all-important question printed inside. It's made from kraft paper for a casual groomsman proposal.

"Don't Fk Up the Speech" Best Man Card

If your chosen best man is a talker, let him know you're hoping for a nostalgic (in a good way) speech with this funny card. It says, "Go easy on the speech and just don't fk it up!" You can show your love on the inside with a handwritten note.

Formal cards

When it comes to asking your friends or family members to be your best man, it's best to do so with a unique gift or card. Here are some ideas for formal cards to accompany your proposal:

Time to Suit Up Card

This card is a simple way to ask your friends to be a part of your wedding. These formal note cards are made with high-quality white shimmer cardstock and come with envelopes. The cards are 3.5" x 5" folded and you can choose from various titles, including "groomsman", "best man", "ring bearer", "man of honour", or leave it blank for you to use as you wish.

Suit Up Groomsmen Cards

These high-quality cards are a great way to invite all the guys to participate in your wedding celebration. They are styled with a sleek bow-tie design in black and white colours, and will pair nicely with any bridesmaid cards and wedding theme ideas.

Black and Gold Postcard-Style Premium Card

These cards are a classy way to get your side of the wedding party assembled. They include six premium postcard styles, six black envelopes, and a 2x2 inch Off Market Sticker. The back is designed for your own personal message.

Vintage Rustic Card

This card is printed on white, high-quality card stock paper and has plenty of space for a personalized message. It comes with a matching pearl white envelope.

Groomsman Minimalist Proposal Card

This card uses classic, all-around paper with a natural feel and an uncoated matte finish. It has high-quality, full-colour, full-bleed printing on both sides and is easy to write on.

Your Service is Requested Groomsmen Card

The front of this card features a watercolour tuxedo illustration with the message "Your service as a groomsman is requested." The inside is blank, leaving plenty of room for a handwritten message. It includes a white envelope and can be paired with a tie or cufflinks for a dapper groomsmen proposal gift.

Cards with gifts

Gifts with Cards

Gifts are a great way to accompany a card asking someone to be your groomsman. Here are some ideas for gifts to include:

• A personalised bottle of their favourite liquor, such as whiskey, rum, or vodka, with a card asking them to be your groomsman.
• A personalised hip flask, with a card asking them to "be my wingman".
• A pair of cufflinks, with a card asking them to suit up for your big day.
• A funny card with a fake moustache prop, paired with a nice bottle of liquor.
• A pocket watch, with a card asking them to be your "timekeeper" for the wedding.
• A set of golf balls, with a card asking them to "be a part of your team".
• A nice tie, with a card asking them to "tie the knot" with you.
• A personalised wallet, with a card asking them to "keep your secrets safe".
• A set of personalised beer labels, with a card asking them to "cheers to your friendship".

If you are asking your groomsmen closer to the wedding day, you could include a gift that they can use on the day itself:

• A personalised hangover kit, with a funny card referencing a movie like The Hangover.
• A personalised handkerchief, with a card asking them to "be there for your tears of joy".
• A set of personalised socks, with a card asking them to "help you take your next steps in life".
• A personalised leather wash bag, with a card asking them to "get ready for the big day".
• A set of personalised golf balls, with a card asking them to "be your witness".
• A nice pair of sunglasses, with a card asking them to "not let your love blind you".

Cards with envelopes

Groomsman and best man cards with envelopes are a great way to ask your friends and family to be a part of your wedding. Here are some ideas for cards with envelopes that you can send to your groomsmen and best man:

Personalised Cards

You can opt for a personalised card that includes the recipient's name inside the card, as well as your wedding date. These cards are completely customisable, allowing you to use any title or wording. You can choose from different card sizes, types, and envelope colours to create a unique proposal card for your groomsmen and best man.

Funny Cards

If you're looking for a lighthearted approach, consider a funny card that says, "Free beer funny card, will you be my groomsman/best man card?" This card is sure to bring a smile to your groomsmen and best man's faces.

Video Game-Themed Cards

For the gamers in your life, there are video game-themed proposal cards available. These unique cards feature designs inspired by popular games like Call of Duty and Halo. They are a fun and creative way to pop the question to your groomsmen and best man.

Lapel Pin Cards

A special way to propose to your best man is with a lapel pin card. These cards come with a "Hand of the Groom" pin, a keepsake that your best man can treasure long after the wedding. The card reads, "Every Groom needs a hand...Will you be my Best Man?" and is a memorable way to ask your best man to be a part of your special day.

Template Cards

If you want to add a personal touch, consider using a template card that you can edit and customise. These cards allow you to include photos and personal messages, making them a unique way to propose to your groomsmen and best man.

Cards with custom messages

The Formal Invitation

This card is a formal invitation to your wedding, with a personalised message inside asking your chosen groomsman or best man to play a role in the wedding. The card can be customised with their name and your message, and is a great way to let them know their presence and support means a lot to you.

The Humorous Card

A light-hearted card with a funny message or illustration is a great option for a more casual approach. Cards with funny puns or references to movies, such as *The Hangover*, are a fun way to pop the question. You could even include a fake moustache or a pair of sunglasses for a playful touch.

The Sentimental Card

For a more heartfelt approach, a sentimental card can express your gratitude and happiness at having your chosen groomsman or best man by your side on your wedding day. You can include a personal note about your relationship and how much their presence will mean to you. This is a great way to show your vulnerable side and create a lasting memory.

The Themed Card

If you're having a themed wedding or want to incorporate a shared interest, a themed card is a fun option. For example, if you share a love of gaming, you could send a card with a gaming-themed design. Or, if you're having a Gatsby-themed wedding, you could send art deco-inspired cards.

The Handwritten Card

For a truly personalised touch, a handwritten card is a thoughtful way to ask your groomsmen or best man to be a part of your wedding. You can write a custom message expressing your appreciation and why you want them specifically to be a part of your big day. This adds a special touch that they can keep as a memento.

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