
In the Season 9 episode of Will & Grace, titled The Wedding, Will, Grace, Jack, and Karen attend the wedding of Will's ex-boyfriend Vince. Will and Vince had a tumultuous relationship, with several breakups and makeups throughout the series. In the episode, Will struggles with the idea of attending his ex's wedding and initially tells Grace he won't go. However, he changes his mind and crashes the wedding, seeking closure and answers from Vince. Despite his initial hesitation, Will manages to give a heartfelt toast at the wedding, reflecting on his relationship with Vince and the reason for their breakup. The episode explores the complex dynamics of their past relationship and the impact it still has on Will.
| Characteristics | Values |
|---|---|
| Date | 2018 |
| Episode | Season 9, Episode 10 |
| Vince's Partner | Ryan |
| Vince's Partner's Cousin | Angela |
| Vince's Partner's Cousin's Partner | Jack |
| Vince's Former Partner | Will |
| Will's Best Friend | Grace |
| Will's Former Partner | Leo |
| Will's Former Partner's Baby Daddy | Harry Connick Jr. |
| Vince's Profession | Cop from Brooklyn |
| Wedding Singer | Gypsy from Gilmore Girls |
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What You'll Learn

Will and Vince's breakup
The first breakup occurs when Vince is fired from his job and ends up staying on Will's couch, which doesn't go over well. They get back together in Season 8, but when Will chooses to support his pregnant best friend Grace over Vince, the two break up again. This time, the breakup has more serious consequences, as it is revealed in the 2005 series finale that Will and Grace are no longer on good terms and are living separate lives.
Despite their breakups, Will and Vince remain friends, and Will is invited to Vince's wedding to his new boyfriend, Ryan. Will struggles with the idea of attending the wedding and is determined to get closure from Vince about why he was dumped. At the wedding, Grace intervenes to prevent Will from causing a scene, and the two former lovers share an awkward photo together.
The episode featuring Vince and Ryan's wedding received mixed reviews from fans, with some praising the brilliant toasts and comedic skill, while others found it painful to watch and criticized Will's portrayal as a juvenile narcissist. Despite the breakup, there is still a glimmer of hope for Will and Vince's relationship, as actor Bobby Cannavale posted a photo on set, hinting at a possible reunion.
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Will's controlling behaviour
In the lead-up to the wedding, Will struggles to accept Vince's impending marriage. Despite initially telling Grace that he is fine with Vince's decision to marry his new partner, whom he had only been dating for nine months, Will's true feelings of distress begin to unravel quickly. He crashes the wedding, fuelled by caffeine and sleep deprivation, in a last-ditch attempt to get closure and answers from Vince.
Overall, Will's controlling behaviour in the context of Vince's wedding and their past relationship highlights the complex nature of his character. While his intentions may be good, his actions can have unintended consequences and cause hurt to those closest to him.
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Grace's toast
Grace begins her toast at the wedding by acknowledging Will's controlling tendencies, but also highlighting his good intentions. She says, "Of course, you're a little controlling, but that's only because you want to bring out the best in people." Grace's words provide insight into Will's character and his well-meaning, yet sometimes misguided, attempts to help those around him.
In her toast, Grace expresses her genuine happiness for Vince and his new partner, Ryan. She notes how Vince's commitment issues seem to be a thing of the past, and she is glad to see him moving on and finding lasting love. Grace's words showcase her support for Vince's happiness, even if it means letting go of their shared past.
Grace also takes a moment in her toast to address Will directly. She reassures him that his presence at the wedding is not only tolerated but also welcomed, despite his initial hesitation to attend. Grace's words serve as a reminder that, although the past may be painful, it is important to find closure and celebrate the joy of the present moment.
Finally, Grace raises a glass to the happy couple, wishing them all the best for their future together. She thanks Vince and his new husband for bringing everyone together to celebrate their love and for creating an opportunity to reflect on the importance of love, friendship, and moving forward.
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Jack's flirtations
At the wedding reception, Jack is on the lookout for a wedding hookup. He sets his sights on finding a man in uniform and tries to figure out which of the cops is gay. He asks several cops about their favourite TV show, and most of them answer "The Wire," except for Officer Drew, who says "This Is Us." Jack zeroes in on Drew, and the two end up hooking up. However, Jack later learns that Drew is married to Vince's cousin, Angela, and that he has never been with a man before. Despite this revelation, Jack dismisses their encounter as "fun but meaningless" in the gay world.
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Karen's scavenger hunt
Karen Walker is in the middle of a high-stakes scavenger hunt at Vince's wedding. The prize for the winner is $40. The items on the scavenger hunt list include:
- A monkey (100 points)
- A Kardashian (80 points)
- NYPD/Police badge (high on the list of items)
- Ryan's grandmother's dentures (in an Arby's bag)
Karen successfully finds a monkey, Ryan's grandmother's dentures, and a police badge, putting her in the lead against Ivanka Trump.
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Frequently asked questions
Will, Grace, Jack, and Karen attend the wedding of Will's ex-boyfriend Vince, who is marrying his boyfriend of nine months. Will, who is struggling with the breakup, crashes the wedding and is on a mission for closure.
All Will wants is two minutes with Vince to get some answers. He wants to find out from his ex why he dumped him.
Will is heartbroken and struggles with the breakup. He overcaffeinates and swears to Grace that he is fine with Vince getting married.
Grace tries to prevent Will from making a scene and intervenes before he can ask Vince any questions. Meanwhile, Jack is excited about the surplus of men in NYPD uniforms and tries to find out which of the cops are gay. Karen is participating in a high-stakes scavenger hunt.



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