Thoughtful Gifts For Bridesmaids On Your Wedding Day

There are endless options for bridesmaids' gifts, but the best ones are those that are thoughtful and show your appreciation. Here are some ideas to get you started:

- Personalised items such as jewellery, clothing, or accessories.

- Experiences such as a spa day, wine tasting, or a cooking class.

- Comfort items such as dressing gowns, robes, pyjamas, and slippers.

- Self-care kits with scented candles, bath bombs, face masks, and cosy socks.

- Handwritten notes or memory books to elevate the role of a bridesmaid and show your gratitude.

- Beauty gifts such as makeup, perfume, or skincare products.

- Flowers or flower-themed gifts such as bouquets, flower-shaped jewellery, or floral prints.

- Practical gifts such as tumblers, water bottles, or travel kits.

- Food and drinks such as candy, chocolate, or champagne.

Dressing gowns, robes, pyjamas and slippers

Dressing gowns, robes, pyjamas, and slippers are a perfect blend of comfort and elegance, and make for a great gift for bridesmaids. They can be customised with monograms or matching colours, adding a sentimental touch and making your bridesmaids feel cherished. Plus, they are practical and can be used for future relaxation, ensuring your gift will be used long after the celebration.

• This personalised bridesmaid thank you gift box is guaranteed to make your bridesmaids smile. It includes a robe to wear on the wedding day and a hoodie to wear the next day.
• Surprise your maids in the morning with pretty or customised dressing gowns, robes, slippers or pyjamas. You could even treat junior bridesmaids and flower girls to their own nighties.
• These crewneck sweatshirts are custom-embroidered along the neckline and sleeve with your crew's wedding title and name, respectively. Choose from 11 fabric colours and 35 thread colours to give each member special swag. They'll be wearing these with pride whenever they can.
• If you're planning a summer wedding, sweatshirts might not be the most practical bridesmaid present. You can instead gift them sweat-shorts, a trend that your bridesmaids will too! They can even be embroidered with each person's name or role.
• A pair of smiley face slippers. Each fluffy white slipper is embellished with a colourful smiley face. Give each person their own colour, so they won't get mixed up the next time you're all lounging together.
• A wellness journal. This pretty pick from Papier has 12 weeks' worth of space to track goals, jot down feelings, express gratitude and more. You can customise the covers with each person's name for an extra meaningful touch.
• A travel jewellery case. This one is made of pebbled vegan leather with a soft linen lining that'll keep their accessories untangled and scratch-free. For a little extra, you can have the lid foil debossed with their name.
• A yoga mat. This one has an anti-slip back and comes with a strap for easy transport. Of course, the best part is that it's customised with their name and favourite colour.

Jewellery

Earrings

Earrings are a versatile option that can complement any outfit. If your bridesmaids have different hair styles, you can choose different earring designs to suit each person. For an updo, small and simple stud earrings can be a perfect choice. For those with their hair down, consider something larger with movement, such as drop earrings. If any of your bridesmaids don't have pierced ears, remember to offer clip-on options.

Necklaces

Necklaces can be a beautiful finishing touch, but they may not always be visible, especially with certain necklines. If you opt for necklaces, consider the dresses' necklines. Longer chains work well with high necklines, while a simple pendant can complement lower necklines like sweetheart or V-necks. For statement necklines, you may want to skip the necklace and focus on other accessories.

Bracelets

Bracelets symbolise friendship and can be a lovely way for your bridesmaids to feel connected on your big day. They add a subtle touch of sparkle without drawing attention away from the dresses. However, if your bridesmaids are wearing long sleeves, bracelets might go unnoticed.

Customised Jewellery

Customised jewellery adds a personal touch to your bridesmaids' gifts. You can choose pieces with their initials, birthstones, or zodiac signs. Customised jewellery shows that you've put thought into each gift and considered your bridesmaids' unique personalities.

Matching Jewellery

You can choose to have your bridesmaids wear matching jewellery for a coordinated look. This can create a cohesive style for your bridal party. However, you may also allow them to mix and match, adding their own personal touch to their outfits.

When choosing jewellery as a bridesmaid gift, consider your budget. The average amount spent on a bridal party gift is $75 to $100 per person. You can spend more or less depending on your budget and the size of your bridal party. If you have a larger group, you may want to allocate a smaller amount per person.

Experience gifts

Virtual Classes

Uncommon Goods offers a range of online classes led by experts in various fields, such as watercolour painting, astrology chart reading, and wine tasting. This can be a fun group activity for your bridesmaids to participate in together and learn something new.

Spa Day

A spa day is a perfect way to help your bridesmaids relax and unwind before or after the wedding. You can give them gift cards to their favourite spas or salons, or create a DIY spa experience at home with face masks, manicures, and pedicures.

Wine Tasting

If your bridesmaids enjoy a good glass of wine, why not gift them a wine tasting experience? You can organise a wine tasting event at a local vineyard or winery, or create a DIY wine tasting at home with different types of wine and cheese pairings.

Concert or Show Tickets

Treat your bridesmaids to a fun night out by gifting them tickets to a concert, play, or comedy show. This can be a great way to create lasting memories and give them an experience they'll never forget.

Cooking or Baking Class

For the foodies in your bridal party, consider gifting them a cooking or baking class. This can be a fun and interactive experience where they can learn new recipes, improve their culinary skills, and bond with each other.

Outdoor Adventure

If your bridesmaids are the adventurous type, consider gifting them an outdoor experience such as a hiking trip, kayaking tour, or hot air balloon ride. This can be a fun and exciting way to celebrate your friendship and create lasting memories.

Self-care kits

Practical Self-Care Items

• A tumbler or water bottle to keep them hydrated throughout the day. You could even personalise it with their initials or name.
• A small bottle of bug spray or sunscreen, depending on the location of your wedding.
• A hand cream or fragrance to help them feel refreshed.
• Lip balm or lipstick for touch-ups throughout the day.
• A rollerball perfume that can be easily tucked into a purse.
• A portable phone charger or power bank to ensure they don't run out of battery.
• A small sewing kit for any last-minute dress alterations.
• Pain relievers, bandages, and other first-aid essentials.
• Makeup remover wipes.
• Deodorant to prevent underarm irritation and thigh chafing.

Relaxing Treats

• A luxury candle, perhaps in a celebratory champagne scent.
• A silk sleep mask to ensure a good night's rest.
• A wellness or self-care journal to help them track goals and express gratitude.
• Eye masks or under-eye patches to reduce puffiness.
• Bath bombs or bath salts for a relaxing soak.
• Face masks or clay masks for a spa-like experience.
• A soft pair of slippers or socks to keep them comfortable.
• A cosy robe or pyjama set, which they can wear while getting ready.
• Their favourite sweet treats, such as chocolate or gummy candies.

Personalised Gifts

• A custom-illustrated card featuring a cartoon of you and your bridesmaid.
• A birthstone or birth flower necklace, or a piece of jewellery that celebrates your friendship.
• A tote bag or makeup bag with their initials or name.
• A book about their zodiac sign, or a fun astrological tea blend.
• A small plant or succulent in a personalised pot.
• A mini canvas hand-painted with a meaningful location or image.
• A custom embroidered sweatshirt or fleece shorts.

Handwritten letters/memory books

Handwritten letters and memory books are heartfelt gifts that can elevate the role of a bridesmaid to something truly special. In an age dominated by digital communication, taking the time to pen a personal message can convey deep appreciation and connection.

A handwritten letter allows you to express your gratitude for your bridesmaids' support and friendship in a way that feels intimate and genuine. You can pair these notes with a beautifully crafted memory book to create a cherished keepsake. Fill it with shared memories, photos, and heartfelt messages that your bridesmaids can revisit for years to come. This thoughtful gesture honours the bond you share and reminds them of the joy and love of your wedding day.

• Photo albums
• Scrapbooks
• Handwritten letters

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