Junior Rasmussen
Music is an integral part of any wedding, and choosing the right songs for your big day can be a fun but challenging task. For LGBTQIA+ couples, it can be tricky to find songs that fit their love story, as many songs are written from a cis-het perspective. However, there is a growing selection of queer love songs and gender-neutral options to choose from, ensuring that couples of every orientation can find songs that speak to their unique experiences and tastes. From romantic ballads to high-energy anthems, this list explores some of the best songs to play at gay weddings.
| Characteristics | Values |
|---|---|
| Genre | Ballads, Rom-com style, EDM, Country, Folk |
| Artists | Chappell Roan, Troye Sivan, Frank Ocean, Kehlani, Romy Madley Croft, Muna, Phoebe Bridgers, Brett Every, Belinda Crawford, Etta James, Beyoncé, Jack Johnson, Boy George, Adam Lambert, Mary Lambert, Macklemore |
| Lyrics | "Forrest green, Forrest blues/I'm remembering you/If this is love, I know it's true/I won't forget you", "All the pretty girls in the world/But I'm in this space with you/Colored out the lines/I came to find, my fire was fate with you/Heartache would stay with you/Fly great escapes with you, oh", "I love her, I love her, I love her", "Life's so fun, life's so fun/Don't need to worry about no one/She said I got her if I want/She's so soft like silk chiffon", "What A Beautiful Day", "At Last", "Baby It's You", "Perfect Day", "You Make Me Feel So Brand New", "Stand By Me", "To Be Young", "Cloud Nine", "A Wonderful World", "A Thousand Years", "Same Love" |
| Considerations | The song should be meaningful for both partners and express their tastes and styles as a couple. |
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What You'll Learn
Queer love songs for gay weddings
Music is an essential part of a wedding, and choosing the right songs for your big day can be a special task. For LGBTQIA+ couples, it can be tricky to find the perfect song for their first dance, as so many songs are written from a cis-het relationship perspective. Luckily, there are plenty of gender-neutral songs about love that don't denote specific pronouns. From slow and romantic to upbeat and celebratory, here are some queer love songs that are perfect for gay weddings:
"Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean
A slow, meaningful song of love, "Forrest Gump" is about a man Frank Ocean cares for who is always on his mind. An instrumental version of the song played live by wedding musicians could be a stunning choice for walking down the aisle, while the original version would be an incredible first dance song.
"Honey" by Kehlani
A sweet, slow ballad, "Honey" paints a story of a great love. It's a favourite for many couples' first dance.
"Silk Chiffon" by Muna and Phoebe Bridgers
With its happy beat and sweet lyrics, "Silk Chiffon" is a perfect tune to play at a queer wedding. The song was written by Romy Madley Croft of the xx as an homage to the beginning of her relationship with her wife.
"1950" by King Princess
For a slow and romantic song by a queer artist for your first dance, consider playing "1950" by King Princess.
"What A Beautiful Day" by Brett Every feat. Belinda Crawford
This folk song is a great choice for LGBTQ+ couples looking for a gender-neutral first dance song.
In addition to the above, there are many other options to choose from, including Spotify's Pride Mixes playlist, the Vitamin String Quartet's album *The Gay Wedding Collection*, and the album *Universal Love*, which features classics that have been re-recorded from a queer couple's point-of-view.
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Gender-neutral first dance songs
When it comes to weddings, music can completely transform the atmosphere and create special moments. For couples who identify as LGBTQIA+, finding the perfect wedding songs that don't heavily reference gender stereotypes can be challenging, as many songs are written from a cis-heteronormative perspective.
However, there are plenty of gender-neutral songs about love that use "you" as the pronoun, making them inclusive for binary or non-binary couples. These songs can be meaningful and personal while also expressing individual tastes and styles.
For a slow dance, consider ballads such as "Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean, "Honey" by Kehlani, "Stand By Me" by Ben E. King, or "What A Beautiful Day" by Brett Every feat. Belinda Crawford.
If you're looking for something more upbeat, try "Silk Chiffon" by Muna and Phoebe Bridgers, "Perfect Day" by Lou Reed, or "Baby It's You" by The Shirelles.
For a unique and unexpected twist, you could also choose an instrumental version of a song, such as "At Last" by Etta James, or a string quartet cover, like Vitamin String Quartet's "The Gay Wedding Collection."
Ultimately, the most important thing is to choose songs that resonate with you and your partner and reflect your relationship's unique love story.
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LGBTQ+ wedding bands and musicians
Music is a powerful tool that can completely transform the atmosphere of a wedding. LGBTQ+ couples may want to hear queer songs that specifically celebrate gay love and speak to the feelings they share with their beloved. Luckily, there are plenty of phenomenal songs and musicians for gay weddings.
LGBTQ+ Wedding Musicians and Bands
When looking for wedding musicians and bands, couples can consider different types such as bands, solo performers, DJs, or string quartets. It is important to find versatile musicians who can cater to specific preferences and multiple musical genres. Asking friends, family, or other LGBTQ+ couples for recommendations can be a great way to find talented, inclusive, and LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. When reaching out, using inclusive language can help gauge the musicians' openness and ensure they are supportive of same-sex couples. Checking out the musicians' online portfolios and past performances can also give a good idea of their style, versatility, and talent.
Couples can also arrange meetings with musicians to discuss their wedding vision, including their musical preferences and any special requests. This is an opportunity to assess the musicians' professionalism, enthusiasm, and willingness to adapt to their needs. During the consultation, it is important to ask the musicians about their experience performing at same-sex weddings and for references from previous LGBTQ+ clients.
LGBTQ+ Wedding Songs
Finding gay love songs that do not heavily reference gender stereotypes can be tricky, as many songs are written from a cis-het relationship perspective. However, there are plenty of options available, including gender-neutral songs that use "you" as the pronoun and can work for any couple. For those looking for something more upbeat, there are also party-ready hits and pride mixes available on Spotify.
For a slow, meaningful song, LGBTQ+ couples might consider "Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean, which can be played as an instrumental version by live wedding musicians or as the original for a first dance song. "Honey" by Kehlani is another sweet, slow ballad that is a favourite for many couples' first dance. "Silk Chiffon" by Muna and Phoebe Bridgers is a happy, upbeat tune with sweet lyrics that is perfect for a queer wedding.
Couples can also find inspiration from various online sources such as Pinterest, Instagram, Spotify, Apple Music, and wedding-specific platforms like The Knot, WeddingWire, Equally Wed, Dancing With Her, and Love Inc. These platforms offer a wealth of curated collections, playlists, and real wedding stories to help couples find inspiration that resonates with them.
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Romantic ballads and high-energy anthems
Music is a powerful tool that can completely transform the atmosphere of a wedding. When it comes to romantic ballads and high-energy anthems for gay weddings, there are plenty of options to choose from.
For couples who want to celebrate their love with a meaningful first dance, there are many gender-neutral songs that use "'you'" as the pronoun, making them perfect for LGBTQ+ weddings. These songs can range from slow and sentimental ballads to more upbeat and unconventional choices. Some examples of romantic ballads with meaningful lyrics include:
- "Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean: a slow, meaningful song about having someone special on your mind.
- "Honey" by Kehlani: a sweet, slow ballad about a great love, making it a favourite for many queer couples' first dances.
- "A Thousand Years" by Christina Perri: with lyrics like "Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years/I'll love you for a thousand more," this song captures the depth of a long-lasting love.
- "Same Love" by Macklemore and Mary Lambert: an ode to marriage equality, this beautiful slow tune combines two of R&B's best voices.
If you're looking for high-energy anthems to get everyone on the dance floor, here are some options that will set the perfect tone for your celebration:
- "Silk Chiffon" by Muna and Phoebe Bridgers: a happy beat and sweet lyrics about being in love, making it a perfect tune to play at a queer wedding.
- "I'm Coming Out" by Diana Ross: a classic song to belt out and celebrate the LGBTQ+ community beyond just dancing.
- "What A Beautiful Day" by Brett Every feat. Belinda Crawford: a folk song that celebrates the beauty of the day and the joy of being with your beloved.
These are just a few examples of the many romantic ballads and high-energy anthems that can be played at gay weddings. Ultimately, the choice of music should reflect the couple's style and taste, creating a personal and expressive soundtrack for their special day.
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Songs by queer singers
Music has the power to transform the atmosphere of a wedding, and there are many moments where a particular song can make all the difference. From the ceremony music to the playlist you get ready to, or the first dance song, music is an integral part of the day.
For LGBTQIA+ couples, it can be tricky to find the perfect song for their first dance, as so many songs are written from a cis-het relationship perspective. Luckily, there are plenty of phenomenal songs by queer singers that can be played at LGBTQIA+ weddings.
- "Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean: a slow, meaningful song of love that can be played when walking down the aisle or as a first dance song.
- "Honey" by Kehlani: a sweet, slow ballad that is a favourite for many couples' first dance.
- "1950" by King Princess: a slow and romantic song for a first dance.
- "Still the One" by Shania Twain: a recommendation from LGBTQ+ singer Thomas William Melling.
- "Silk Chiffon" by Muna and Phoebe Bridgers: a song with a happy beat and sweet lyrics, perfect for a late-night moment of love.
If you are looking for instrumental music, the Vitamin String Quartet’s album *The Gay Wedding Collection* is full of string covers of songs like "Your Song", "At Last", and "Like A Prayer", making it ideal for background music during a drinks reception or wedding breakfast.
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Frequently asked questions
There are many songs that can be a great fit for a same-sex wedding. Here are some suggestions:
- "Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean
- "Honey" by Kehlani
- "Same Love" by Macklemore and Mary Lambert
- "What A Beautiful Day" by Brett Every feat. Belinda Crawford
- "Silk Chiffon" by Muna and Phoebe Bridgers
- "Your Song", At Last, and "Like A Prayer" by Vitamin String Quartet
Here are some gender-neutral songs that can be perfect for LGBTQ+ weddings:
- "Baby It's You"
- "Perfect Day"
- "The Way You Move Me"
- "You're the Fear"
- "A Thousand Years"
- "Stand By Me"
Ballads can be a great choice for a lesbian wedding. Here are some suggestions:
- "Honey" by Kehlani
- "Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean
- "Same Love" by Macklemore and Mary Lambert
There are many songs that can be a good fit for a gay wedding. Here are some suggestions:
- "Forrest Gump" by Frank Ocean
- "Same Love" by Macklemore and Mary Lambert
- "Better Together" by Jack Johnson
- "What A Beautiful Day" by Brett Every feat. Belinda Crawford
- "Silk Chiffon" by Muna and Phoebe Bridgers
If you're looking for songs to get everyone on the dance floor at an LGBTQ+ wedding, consider the following:
- Spotify's Pride Mixes playlist
- "I'm Coming Out"
- "Same Love" by Macklemore and Mary Lambert
- "Better Together" by Jack Johnson
