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The wedding ceremony is a short event, usually lasting 20-30 minutes, during which the couple recites their vows, exchanges rings, and shares their first kiss as a married couple. The reception is a longer celebration, lasting anywhere from 30 minutes to several days, where guests can congratulate the newlyweds, enjoy a meal, and dance. If there is a gap between the ceremony and reception, couples often use this time to take photos, spend time with their wedding party, or simply relax before the reception begins. The reception setup typically includes tables and chairs for guests, a dance floor, and a head table for the married couple. The reception can be as formal or informal as the couple prefers and can be held in a variety of venues, such as restaurants, ballrooms, or outdoor spaces.
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What You'll Learn
Cocktail hour
The cocktail hour is a transitional period between the wedding ceremony and the reception. It is a time for guests to relax, socialise and enjoy some refreshments, transforming the event from a solemn ceremony into a celebratory soirée.
Location
The cocktail hour can take place anywhere, but it is usually held in a separate space from the reception. This could be the rooftop of a hotel, the pool deck of a resort, a garden patio, or a smaller room outside of the main reception space. The location should be able to accommodate your group and suit the climate—for example, an al fresco affair might not work in rainy or cold weather.
Decor
The decor for the cocktail hour should be relaxed and inviting, with a celebratory tone. Tables can be adorned with elegant linens, captivating centrepieces, candles, and other decorative elements. If your cocktail hour is outside but your reception is inside, don't be afraid to vary the decor to match the setting.
Food and Drink
The cocktail hour is a great opportunity to offer signature cocktails that reflect you as a couple or match your wedding theme. This can be a more cost-effective option than having a full bar. To decrease the chance of long drink lines, determine the number of bars based on the guest count and opt for tray-passed drinks. Food served during the cocktail hour can be substantial, or you may prefer to offer snacks and appetisers.
Entertainment
The cocktail hour is a great opportunity for guests to mingle with the couple and with each other. It is also a chance for the couple to take photos, either before or after the ceremony. Some couples choose to provide entertainment such as lawn games, a guest book, or Polaroids for a photo board. Music can be provided by a DJ or live musicians, such as a jazz trio or acoustic guitarist.
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First dance
The first dance is a special moment for the newlyweds and signifies the first steps they take together as a married couple. It is usually the first dance of the wedding reception, with the best man and maid of honour dancing together first, followed by the rest of the wedding party.
The first dance is often a romantic moment, a continuation of the couple's marriage vows to one another. In the past, the groom would steal his bride and dance with her around the fire to show her off to his friends before the celebrations could begin. This evolved into the era when brides were bought from their fathers, and the first dance would be a fertility ceremony.
Nowadays, couples often personalise their first dance by selecting songs that hold special meaning to them, sometimes opting for contemporary hits or unconventional choices. Some couples even invest in professional dance lessons to perform choreographed routines, adding a unique and entertaining element to their reception.
After the first dance, the parent dances, such as the father-daughter dance and mother-son dance, may take place. Some couples may also choose to include the anniversary dance, also known as the bouquet dance, where all married couples in the room are invited to slow dance together. As the song plays, the DJ or emcee will occasionally interrupt, asking couples who have been married for a shorter amount of time to take a seat, until the couple married the longest is the only one left on the dance floor.
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Speeches and toasts
Who should give a speech?
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to wedding speeches, and the couple can ask whoever they want to give a speech or reading. Traditionally, the best man, maid of honour, and parents/parent figures of the couple give speeches. Other bridesmaids and groomsmen may also wish to say a few words, as well as close friends and relatives. Ultimately, it's up to the couple to decide who they want to speak at their wedding.
When to give a speech
Speeches are usually given at the wedding reception, but they can also take place during the rehearsal dinner or even during the ceremony itself. Rehearsal dinner toasts can be longer and more involved, with stories and anecdotes about the couple or the wedding.
What to say in a speech
There are no hard and fast rules for what to say in a wedding speech, but there are some common themes. Speeches often include words of wisdom, hilarious or heartfelt anecdotes, and expressions of gratitude to guests for their attendance and well-wishes. It's also common to see tributes to loved ones who are no longer here and to offer congratulations to the newlyweds.
Tips for writing a great speech
- Make it personal and heartfelt.
- Include a mix of humour and sentiment.
- Borrow ideas and inspiration from other sources, but make sure the speech reflects your unique voice and style.
- Keep it comfortable; speak from the heart, but don't feel pressured to share anything you're not comfortable with.
- Practice makes perfect. Rehearse your speech beforehand to help you feel more confident and ensure your message comes across clearly.
- End with a toast. This is your chance to take a well-deserved drink and celebrate with your guests!
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Dinner and cake
If the wedding ceremony takes place during a mealtime, such as lunch or dinner, a full meal is typically expected at the reception. In some cases, the couple may opt for a luncheon, brunch, or afternoon tea instead of a formal dinner. The dinner may be preceded by a cocktail hour, which helps to satisfy hungry guests before the meal is served. It is customary for the couple to make a grand entrance at the beginning of the reception, followed by their first dance. After the first dance, there may be a brief welcome speech or blessing before dinner is served.
The wedding cake is often served after the meal, marking the end of the meal and the beginning of the dancing. However, some couples may choose to cut the cake before dinner to ensure the photographer captures the moment and to make it easier for the catering staff to serve. Cutting the cake is a special moment, where the couple ceremonially cuts the first piece of cake and may feed a bite to each other, in a nod to an ancient Roman wedding rite. The cake is then served to the guests, often as a plated dessert course.
The type of cake served is chosen at the couple's discretion, and today, bakers offer a variety of flavours and fillings to satisfy diverse tastes. Some couples may opt for a traditional cake, such as a multi-tiered layer cake with white frosting, while others may choose a unique combination of flavours, such as dark chocolate with peanut butter filling or salted caramel. The cake may be supplemented with additional desserts, such as truffles, chocolate-covered strawberries, or an ice cream sundae bar, to enhance the sweet experience for the guests.
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Dancing and other activities
Dancing is a popular activity at wedding receptions. The newlyweds usually choose a DJ and agree on a playlist with them before the wedding. The first dance is often a contemporary hit or an unconventional choice that holds special meaning for the couple. Some couples even take professional dance lessons to perform choreographed routines. After the first dance, the couple's parents may give a brief welcome speech or blessing. Then, the guests, including the couple's parents, join in the dancing. In some cases, guests are asked not to start dancing until after a sequence of "special" dances, such as parent dances.
The wedding reception setup usually includes a dance floor, with tables and chairs for guests to sit and eat. The reception can be held in a larger venue than the wedding ceremony to accommodate activities and allow guests to mingle. It can be hosted indoors or outdoors, in a venue shared with the wedding ceremony, or somewhere offsite. Traditional wedding reception venues include church recreation areas, parks, restaurants, ballrooms, or specific wedding venue locations with themes like rustic, romantic, beach, or ballroom.
The reception is a time for guests to congratulate the couple, enjoy a meal, and celebrate their union. Food served at the reception is chosen at the couple's discretion and can range from non-alcoholic drinks and wedding cake to multi-course dinners. In some cultures, the focus may be on dessert, especially if the couple's culture or religion prohibits alcohol or dancing. The wedding cake is often a multi-tiered, elaborately decorated layer cake. Some couples also have a smaller display cake supplemented by a sheet cake.
The reception is also an opportunity for guests to socialise and take photos with the couple and their families. In Chinese weddings, the gap between greeting guests and the reception is referred to as entertainment time, during which guests may play poker or mahjong. In Western weddings, a cocktail hour serves as a buffer between the ceremony and reception, especially if they are held in different locations. During the cocktail hour, guests can enjoy drinks and hors d'oeuvres, and the newlyweds may take their portraits.
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Frequently asked questions
A wedding reception is a celebration that follows the wedding ceremony. It is a time for guests to congratulate the couple, enjoy a meal, listen to speeches and toasts, and dance and celebrate the couple's union.
If there is a gap between the ceremony and the reception, couples often use this time to take wedding photos, spend some alone time, or socialise with guests. In some cultures, entertainment is provided during this time, such as poker and mahjong.
A typical wedding reception timeline includes a cocktail hour, the couple's grand entrance, the first dance, speeches and blessings, dinner, parent-child dances, cake cutting, and the last dance.
Guests can expect to be seated at tables with chairs and enjoy food and drinks. There may be a receiving line where guests greet the newlyweds one by one. There is often a dance floor for guests to join in the dancing, and the couple may have prepared a choreographed routine.
