Planning The Perfect Wedding: A Step-By-Step Guide

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Planning a wedding can be stressful, but there are plenty of resources out there to help you. One such resource is *How to Plan a Wedding* by Terri Pous, a month-by-month guide that simplifies the ins and outs of wedding planning. This book is a checklist-in-a-guide that helps you knock out to-dos and divvy up tasks so you can enjoy every minute of your engagement.

Characteristics Values
Format Month-by-month guide
Content Checklists, tasks, tips
Style Portable, pocket-sized
Purpose Simplifying wedding planning
Audience All couples

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Month-by-month planning

Month 1

  • Take the wedding style quiz
  • Visit venues

Month 2

Research and book vendors

Month 3

Attend vendor appointments

Month 4

Attend food and drink tastings

Month 5

Research and book entertainment

Month 6

Send out save the dates

Month 7

Plan the bachelor/bachelorette party

Month 8

Order the wedding cake

Month 9

Finalise the guest list

Month 10

Attend dress fittings

Month 11

Confirm all details with vendors

Month 12

Enjoy your wedding day!

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Venue visits

When visiting venues, it is important to consider the size of the space and whether it will accommodate your guest list. You should also think about the layout and how it will work for your ceremony and reception. If you are having a band or DJ, you will need to make sure there is enough space for dancing.

Another thing to consider is the location of the venue. Is it easy for your guests to get to? Are there enough parking spaces? If the venue is far away, you may need to think about providing transport for your guests.

The style of the venue is also important. Does it fit with the theme or style of your wedding? Is it a blank canvas that you can decorate however you like, or does it already have a lot of character?

Finally, don't forget to ask about the cost of hiring the venue and what is included in that price. Some venues will provide catering, drinks, and even decorations, while others will just provide the space. Make sure you know exactly what you are getting for your money.

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Vendor appointments

Planning a wedding can be stressful, but there are plenty of resources to help you. One such resource is the book *How to Plan a Wedding* by Terri Pous, which includes a month-by-month guide to planning a wedding.

The book suggests that you should start making vendor appointments in month three. This is when you should start to book appointments with caterers, photographers, florists, and any other suppliers you need for your wedding.

It is important to be organised when making vendor appointments. Keep a record of the dates and times of your appointments, and what you need to discuss at each one. It can also be helpful to bring along any relevant information, such as your wedding budget and a list of your must-haves and nice-to-haves.

When you arrive at the appointment, be sure to introduce yourself and explain what you are looking for. It is also a good idea to ask the vendor about their experience and what they can offer you. Be sure to ask any questions you have, and don't be afraid to negotiate on price or other details.

Finally, don't forget to follow up after the appointment. Send a thank-you note or email to the vendor, and confirm any details that were discussed. This will help to ensure that everyone is on the same page and that your wedding plans are on track.

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Tastings

The book *How to Plan a Wedding* by Terri Pous suggests that you schedule your tastings for month four of your twelve-month wedding planning countdown. This is a good time to do it, as you will have already chosen your venue and vendors, and can now focus on the finer details, such as the food and drink.

The book also encourages you to choose the things you actually want at your wedding, and skip the things that don't matter. So, if you're not fussed about having a fancy wedding cake, for example, you can skip the cake tasting and focus on other aspects of the day.

When it comes to the tastings themselves, it's a good idea to go in with an open mind and be adventurous. Try things you might not usually choose, as you may be surprised by what you like. It's also important to keep in mind any dietary requirements or allergies that you or your guests may have, and make sure that these are communicated to the venue or caterers in advance.

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Fittings

You will need to decide what you want to have fittings for. This could include your wedding dress, suits for the groom and groomsmen, bridesmaids' dresses, and mother-of-the-bride and mother-of-the-groom outfits. You may also want to consider accessories, such as shoes, jewellery and hairpieces.

It's a good idea to take your wedding planning book with you to your fittings, so you can refer to your chosen style and any relevant notes and ideas. This will help you to make decisions and ensure that everything fits together cohesively.

If you are having a wedding party, you may want to bring them along to the fittings for a second opinion and to ensure that everyone is happy with their outfits. It's also a good opportunity to bond and have fun together.

Frequently asked questions

The book is a month-by-month guide that simplifies the ins and outs of wedding planning. It includes a checklist to help you knock out to-dos and divvy up tasks. It also includes a wedding style quiz and lines throughout to jot down your ideas.

Yes, the book includes tips for LGBTQ+ couples and multicultural ceremonies.

The book is based on a twelve-month countdown that can be condensed or expanded to fit your needs. You can start with the wedding style quiz and then take the book to every venue visit (that’s in month one), vendor appointment (month three), tasting (month four), and fitting (month ten).

Yes, the book is portable enough that you can bring it to your appointments.

Yes, the book is suitable for all types of weddings, whether you’re eloping at city hall or throwing a reception for all of your friends and family to attend.

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